I have a theory of how homosexuality is inherited. This is only a theory, and I’m no expert in genetics. Furthermore, I’m not saying I’m certain it’s true, and I will point out some possible potential evidence against it.
Suppose sexual attraction is inherited in the same way that height is inherited. What happens for height is (something like) the following: You are born with a sex-neutral potential height inherited from your parents. The sex-neutral potential height you’re born with is approximately the average of your parents’ sex-neutral potential heights. If you’re a boy, the sex-neutral potential height you’re born with is your adult height minus two and a half inches. If you’re a girl, the sex-neutral potential height you’re born with is your adult height plus two and a half inches. As you grow up, the sexual hormones circulating in your body inhibit or enhance your growth potential. If you’re a boy, the sex hormones tend to make you grow two and a half inches more than your sex-neutral potential height. If you’re a girl, the sex hormones tend to make you grow two and a half inches less than your sex-neutral potential height.
This is why you inherit your height from both of your parents, despite the fact that your father is (on average) five inches taller than your mother, so if you’re a boy, most of the time you’ll be taller than your mother, and if you’re a girl, most of the time you’ll be shorter than your father. That’s why the best way to guess the adult height of a baby is, for a boy, average the father’s height with (the mother’s height plus five inches), and, for a girl, average the mother’s height with (the father’s height minus five inches). Equivalently, for a boy, subtract two and a half inches from the father’s height, add two and a half inches to the mother’s height, average the two numbers, and add two and a half inches. For a girl, subtract two and a half inches from the father’s height, add two and a half inches to the mother’s height, average the two numbers, and subtract two inches. Note: This is the best guess for the baby’s eventual height, not an exact prediction. It has a standard deviation of about two inches. Look up the term “standard deviation” if you don’t understand it. So if a father is 6’0" and a mother is 5’7", their boys will be between 5’10" and 6’2" two-thirds of the time, between 5’8" and 6’4" 95% of the time, etc., while the girls will be between 5’5" and 5’9" two-thirds of the time, between 5’3" and 5’11" 95% of the time, etc.
Suppose then that everyone as an adult has a sexual attraction number. The adult sexual attraction number is between (let’s say for the purposes of this argument) -10 and 10. If your sexual attraction number is -10, you’re solely attracted to women. If your sexual attraction number is 10, you’re solely attracted to men. If your sexual attraction number is 0, you’re equally attracted to men or women, and so forth from all numbers between -10 and 10. As with height though, what you inherit from your parents is something we’ll call a sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number. Your sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number is the average of your parents’ sex-neutral potential sexual attraction numbers. Let’s say, for the purposes of this argument, that a man’s sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number is his adult sexual attaction number plus 5. Let’s similarly say, for the purposes of this argument, that a women’s sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number is her adult sexual attraction number minus 5. As children grow up, sex hormones in their body affect their sexual attraction number. For a boy, the sex hormones cause his adult sexual attraction number to be 5 points lower than the sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number he was born with. For a girl, the sex hormones cause her adult sexual attraction number to be 5 points lower than her sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number.
So suppose a completely hetrosexual man and a completely hetrosexual woman have children. The man’s adult sexual attraction number is -10, so his sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number is -5. The woman’s adult sexual attraction number is 10, so her sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number is 5. The average is 0, so (on average) either a boy or a girl will inherit a sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number of 0. There’s probably a standard deviation to take account of here. Let’s say that the standard deviation is 2 points. So two-thirds of the time the child will inherit a sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number between -2 and 2, 95% of the time they will will inherit a sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number between -4 and 4, etc. This means that, as adults, the boys in this marriage will have sexual attraction numbers between -7 and -3 two-thirds of the time, between -9 and -1 95% of the time, etc. The girls, as adults, will have sexual attraction numbers between 3 and 7 two-thirds of the time, between 1 and 9 95% of the time, etc. Nearly all the time then, the children will be hetrosexual, but there is some reasonable chance that they will be homosexual.
On the other hand, suppose a completely hetrosexual man (adult sexual attraction number -10 and sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number -5) marries a mildly hetrosexual woman (adult sexual attraction number 2 and sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number -3). The sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number of their children will be, on average, -4. This means that the boys will have an adult sexual attraction number between -10 and -7 two-thirds of the time, between -10 and -5 95% of the time, etc. (Note that when this theory predicts an adult sexual attraction number lower than -10 or higher than 10, just round it to -10 or 10, respectively.) The girls in this marriage will have an adult sexual attraction number between -1 and 3 two-thirds of the time, between -3 and 5 95% of the time,. etc. This means that while the boys in this marriage will very likely be hetrosexual, there’s a substantial chance that the girls will be homosexual.
Go the other way now. Suppose a completely hetrosexual woman (adult sexual attraction number 10 and sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number 5) marries a mildly hetrosexual man (adult sexual attraction number -2 and sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number 3). The sex-neutral potential sexual attraction number of their children will be, on average, about 4. This means that the girls will have an adult sexual attraction number between 10 and 7 two-thirds of the time, between 10 and 5 95% of the time, etc. The boys in this marriage will have an adult sexual attraction number between -3 and 1 two-thirds of the time, between -5 and 3 95% of the time,. etc. This means that while the girls in this marriage will very likely be hetrosexual, there’s a substantial chance that the boys will be homosexual.
This theory predicts that male hetrosexuality will run in some families while female sexuality will run in other families. There will not be a tendency for male hetrosexuality and female hetrosexuality to run in both families. Is that true? I don’t know. The good thing about this theory is that it predicts that there is a genetic component to homosexuality and hetrosexuality. This theory can be disproved easily though if it turns out that male and female hetrosexuality run in the same families. In any case, what this theory predicts is that what is being inherited is not homosexuality/hetrosexuality, but attraction to men/women.