Not much to do with Ukraine, really, but I’ve harbored a deep antipathy for Russians my whole life, and it’s not just leftover Cold War stuff either. (Boomer here, raised in the whole “Duck and Cover” terror of nuclear war.) It’s something deeper than that–it has something to do with my hatred of nationalism in general, the feeling that one’s own country is the finest culture, people, language, spirit the world has ever known, and the feeling of victimization that the stupid world doesn’t value us properly as their superiors and doesn’t accept their role as our subordinates.
Now I realize that you could easily say that this jingoism I’m describing could better apply to the U.S. than to any other country in the history of the world, and I’ll own it. I think this narrow view “American exceptionalism” is one of the worst things about the U.S., and I despise it here too.
But it’s even worse in Russia, I think, this belief that Russian culture is the greatest, and even worse than that is their resentment that other countries are out to get them. Whether under the Czars, the Soviets, or the Kleptocrats, their culture seems to me to embrace corruption, the oppression of the working poor for the benefit of those few at the top, and their sense that it has to be that way, and always will be that way, but nevertheless they are the only wise civilization ever to exist. Russians seem to me stoical and smug in accepting their perspective on the world, whatever that perspective happens to be at the time.
Some personal notes–I’m descended from Russians, sort of. My family fled Russia (Lithuania and Romania, but those may have been jumping off points) early in the 20th century, and they seemed to me to be difficult people, the ones who actually immigrated to the US and Canada, damaged, mistrustful, bitter, angry people, which informs me a little bit about the Russian character. Also I taught Russian students in a U.S. college in the 1990s and I’ve never in my life seen such cynical, dishonest students–they thought nothing of plagiarizing their work whenever they thought there was a chance of getting away with it, and they treated me like their enemy when I tried to explain how plagiarizing wouldn’t help them to master the material. The Russian system, I concluded, had taught them that everyone is a cheat, and the only purpose to getting an education was to get a degree that would get them jobs, but actually educating themselves was stupid. They wanted jobs, and my insistence on teaching them stuff was just a waste of time, because no one was actually qualified to do any jobs, everyone was faking it and trying to cheat everyone at every turn. My Russian students were almost all liars (not very good ones, but that didn’t stop them) who would stick to their loony stories long after I’d satisfied myself that they were just dumb BS stories. As an example, I might say to one of them, “Listen, Sergei, I know you didn’t write this paper” and he would say, “I did write paper.” So I would answer, “No, you didnt–some native speaker who has mastered a lot of English colloquial phrases that you haven’t mastered wrote it, so can we discuss what we’ll do about your plagiarism?” and he would answer me “Paper is my work. I promise you, Mister Professor, on mother’s life, I write paper.” So I would roll my eyes and tell them that he got a F, or flunked the course, or whatever, and he would go “Unfair to honest hardworking student! I protest to dean!” This happened more times than I can remember, over and over, until the number of Russian emigres dwindled. They really didn’t seem to distinguish a university from a diploma mill–their attitude was “I pay you money for a degree, where is my degree?” while skipping over the whole education part of the deal.
So my life experience has turned me against Russians, as far as any prejudice against a nationality can turn someone, and this Ukraine horror, the ridiculous lies Putin trots out in public, the near-psychotic killing of civilians, the denial that Ukraine even exists, is helping me get a sense of empathy for the Russians. It’s stupid to generalize about millions of people, and I recognize that there are Russians who are disgusted with their government more profoundly than I am
but I’m finding it very hard to think of Russia as anything other than a blight on this earth now.