by putting up with, i would mean pretending that 80% of the earth’s population doesn’t believe in the tooth fairy. Christians/Muslims/Hindus/Buddhist/Et Al and all the nonsense the conflicts between the various sects have caused throughout history and to continue to cause.
Twin studies have pointed to about 40-50% of the disposition towards spiritual practice being genetic. As a point of comparison being gay is about 50% genetic.
That still leaves room for some influence of the religious with no or little genetic disposition for religion. We are into the area where “because they are born that way” answers the question in the thread title
If somebody shows me a picture of their new baby, I’m not going to tell them I think their child is ugly even if that’s what I believe. My opinion isn’t going to change the way their baby looks or change the way they feel. It would just be pointlessly rude.
that’s my point. Most of the population believes in the tooth fairy, i’m sorry the magic giant in sky, so they’ve all agreed not to really discuss how silly the whole thing is but they do agree that the tooth fairy does exist. What is a person who says, uh no, there is no tooth fairy to do?
It can be. And in cases like that, there’s an element of self-interest in not expressing an opinion.
But the level at which expressing an opinion is rude is generally lower than the level at which expressing an opinion is dangerous. We shouldn’t feel free to express any opinion just because we feel safe from danger.