Warning: I’m not a nutritionist, but I’ve been learning a lot about nutrition lately, so here goes.
First of all, you need to get a certain amount of energy from food. Energy can come from fats, proteins, and carbohydrates.
Your body needs a certain level of fat, because important parts of you (your cell walls and most of your brain) are made of fat. Fat is made of building blocks called fatty acids, and your body needs those building blocks to assemble the different fats it needs to grow and repair tissues. Another reason to consume a reasonable level of fat is to get fat-soluable vitamins. If you cut back too far on fat (I’m not sure how far) you’ll need to take vitamin supplements. You can cut your fat calories down to 10%, safely, but for most people, 30% is a much more comfortable level, as you say. Humans have been programmed by evolution to crave fat because we’ve spent most of our history taking in too few calories, not too many. If you choose leaves you feeling deprived and unhappy, you are much more likely to go back to your old eating habits.
Your body also needs proteins to build and repair tissue. The building blocks are amino acids. Now, your body can make many types of amino acids from other raw materials, but there are 8 or 9 (depending on who you ask) amino acids that you need to get from the foods you eat. So you also need a certain amount of protein in your diet.
That leaves carbs, which fill out the rest of the calories that you need for energy. One of the reasons carbs make a good “filler” is that they are not as energy-dense as protein or fat, so eating carb-rich foods will leave you feeling more full, without consuming as many calories. Of course, if you choose the right carb-rich foods, they’ll also bring alot of healthy stuff along with the energy: water-soluable vitamins, fiber, antioxidants, etc.
I track what I eat kinda obsessively with fitday.com, and ('cause I’m sure you’re dying to know) I get 28% of my calories from fat, 17% from protein, and 55% from carbs, which took a long time (about 2 months!) to get used to, but now I’m pretty happy with it, partly because my body and psychology has adjusted to it, and partly because I’ve learned what foods are healthy and satisfying, what foods to avoid 'cause they’re not too good for the diet and they don’t give me enough satisfaction to be worth it, and what foods I can enjoy in moderate amounts.