What I’ve often said of politicians holds true of music and many other things as well.
“When we like or dislike a politician, we usually have perectly sound reasons. When we LOVE or LOATHE a politician, it usually has little to do with the politician himself and much to do with what he stands for in your eyes.”
It was perfectly logical for a conventional Sixties liberal Democrat to like Hubert Humphrey, and for a conventional Republican to dislike him. But the degree to which liberal Democrats worshipped John F. Kennedy and the Republicans despised him was not at all rational. Kennedy was loved AND despised far out of proportion to anything he actually did as President. People loved or hated JFK because of what they THOUGHT He represented (whether he actually represented those things or believed in them was irrelevant), or because of what people perceived about his admirers and his detractors.
That is, when we’re rational, we judge a politician by his record. When we’re irrational, we judge him by 1) how he makes us feel, and 2) whether we think he’s One Of Us (yay!) or One of THEM (ugh!).
A hard rock fan in the Seventies disliked many genres of music, but he never worked up the kind of hatred for, say, country or classical music that he did for disco. He never chanted “Country sucks!” or “Classical blows!” Disco made him angry in a way no other genre did, and it wasn’t really about the music per se. It was about what he thought of the people who liked it. Rock fans associated disco with places like Studio 54, where Beautiful People frolicked and regular guys were kept out by snooty doormen who decided if you were cool enough to get in.
Even if MOST people who liked KC & the Sunshine Band were just regular folks who enjoyed dancing, an image was locked in the rock fans’ head: “Disco lovers are elitist wusses who think they’re better than me!”
Well, a secular urban liberal has his own image of what a country music lover is. That image often has nothing to do with reality, but that’s irrelevant. An urban liberal hears a banjo or steel guitar and immediately thinks, "This is one of those songs that says, “Hot damn, I luv Amerikkka, and I love Jesus, and I love the flag, and I hate queers.”
If an urban liberal just doesn’t LIKE the music, that makes perfect sense. There’s no type of msuic that everybody likes. But if he loathes country msuic with a passion, it’s probably not about the music- it’s about what he perceives (rightly or wrongly) about the people who love it.
MANY of us use music as shorthand, and judge others by the music they like. We immediately decde that someone who shares our musical taste MUST be part of our crowd, and that people who love certain other genres CAN’T be part of our group.