Folks, you’re missing my point. I find accusations that I water down the Gospel or will say anything to be popular to be offensive. I find the phrase “liberal Christian” used is used with contempt just as often as “fundie” is. Vanilla, as far as I’m concerned, you still owe me an apology for accusing me of watering down the Gospel and saying anything to be popular.
I don’t have the time or the energy to rehash a dozen Great Debates over homosexuality or who does or does not get saved. I’ve never pretended to be anything but unconventional. In fact, I stink at being conventional. My experience with Christ is mine and mine alone. I don’t think I’m required to justify it to anyone save Christ Himself, and I suspect I’m in for a certain amount of sighing from Him, although maybe I can score an “E” for effort.
I don’t use the term “fundie” much myself, and I don’t care for it much, either. On the other hand, if calling a person a “fundie” is hate speech while calling someone else a “liberal Christian” or making the accusations above isn’t, then I consider that an unfair double-standard. I really dislike having the faith which quite literally saved my life denigrated because I disagree with someone and that applies whether the person denigrating it is atheist, Christian or any other form of faith or lack of faith. Right now, objecting to the use of the term “fundie” while letting others slide is way too much like “We can offend you but you can offend us.” I spent a lot of my youth living by that standard, and I don’ t like it.
I’m sorry, but I cannot agree on this issue. No matter how offensive I find “watering down the Gospel” to be, I don’t want to see that phrase marked as hate speech. I would instead prefer to take it as an opportunity to explain why my faith is more akin to sweet, strong wine than water to me. I would rather explain why liberality is at the core of my faith rather than just write off the person using the the term.
There are people out there with legitimate complaints about Christianity as practiced by some Christians. One acquaintance of mine was physically abused by her fundamentalist Christian parents who would then talk about how evil she was and how they would sit in heaven and weep to see her suffering torments of hell for all eternity. Needless to say, while I’m sure she knows this behaviour isn’t typical of fundamentalist Christians or Christianity in general, it did put her off Christianity, and I’m afraid I really can’t blame her. I wish it were otherwise.
Please, don’t you understand that offensive is being given and taken on both sides? If I were a better Christian, it would be easier to turn the other cheek. If I were a better Christian, I probably would never have posted in this thread. I do try to understand and respect the beliefs of those who differ from me. I also fully admit they may be right and will accept the consequences if I am wrong, even if that includes an eternity of suffering. It’s just that I’m just as tired of having my faith insulted as the people who object to the term “fundie” are of having theirs insulted. Surely there must be a better way than having one word declared “hate speech”?
Respectfully,
CJ