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Have cable broadband, desktop & laptop computers with WinXP, wired router.
I got the router primarily as a firewall, but did hook up my old laptop now and then with extra cable from the router. Worked fine.
Just got a new laptop with wi-fi built in. First time I turned it on, got a notice that I was connected (if that’s the right word) to a wireless LAN. That gave me pause, then I realized it was my next door neighbor’s. I asked, but he would not give me his ID and password. 
OK, as long as I have a laptop with this, it would be handy to be able to sit anywhere in the house and get online.
However, if I get a wireless router to replace the wired one, then how do I differentiate between my neighbor’s network and mine? I assume there is some way to configure it, but as never used wi-fi before, can’t seem to figure it out.
I don’t really want to set up a network between the two computers. just want to be able to get online through the cable ISP with the laptop.
Went to the Wireless Network setup wiz, but right away it got complicated and am not sure that is the program in Control Panel that I would want to accomplish this. Is there another program I should use for this? Suggestions?
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Based on your question, I assume you want a literal cookbook “how to?”…and you do, in fact, want to set up a network, unbeknownst to you. You want two computers using the same link to the Internet, and you want the router to let them do that. No problem.
Buy a Linksys Wireless G Router. About $50. Don’t get the Speedbooster one–it won’t increase speeds to your laptop b/c the laptop isn’t Speedbooster. Don’t buy the N kind.
Hook the new router to your cable modem with an ethernet cable. Turn it on and let it connect.
Hook your desktop computer to the router with an ethernet cable. Open Internet explorer and type in the default IP address of whatever router you ended up buying. Example: 192.168.0.1
Hit the Enter button.
You will see the admin screen for your router. Default for Linksys is blank for UserID and “admin” (without the quotes) fo password.
Click the Wireless tab. Enable the Wireless network, give it a name, and save changes. Make the name simple. “Geoff” is fine. Click the Wireless security tab and pick 64-bit encryption, WEP, and put anything you want in the passphrase, which is just a Linksys tool to help you create a secret key. You will see some letters and keys in the boxes below. Write down the #1 key, save changes, and turn on your laptop.
Make sure the wireless is on for your laptop, and open the utility to control it. Ask the utility to show you the available wireless networks, and pick Geoff. When you try to connect it will give you a blank box and ask for the key. It might ask you what kind of security Geoff wants; answer 64-bit WEP.
Type in the combination of numbers and letters you wrote down. You will probably need to enter this twice.
Wait for the router to give you an IP address (this will happen automatically), and go online wirelessly.
Now that you have the basics, you can go back into the router and change lots of settings. If you are paranoid enough you can improve your security by changing to more robust encryption schemes such as the WPA variants, and you can also decide not to broadcast your SSID (the network name). For home networks it’s now worth it in my opinion, but computer people love to convince you it is. It’s best to control the router settings with the desktop hardwired to the router. If you make changes wirelessly to the router from the laptop you can make the router stop talking to the laptop and then you have to start from a wired connection all over again.
It doesn’t have to be a Linksys router. Belkin is good and so is DLink and so are many others.
It’s fine to use the instructions and the included disk but it sounds like you aren’t big on that sort of thing.