I didn’t say I LIKED Helms, or that I was neutral on the topic of Helms, just that I didn’t have any visceral hatred of the man. I have felt hatred in my life, it is an intense, very uncomfortable feeling. I don’t feel it towards Helms, though I do find the thought of his death quite pleasant. I suspect that is because Helms is something of an abstract to me – I have never met the man, nor been directly affected by anything he’s done. I’m sure the legislation he’s baced and also blocked has affected me in bad ways, but that, too, is an abstract thing.
If I were wishing ahd hoping for death for gays generally I would be a homophobe, but I could wish and hope for the death of an individual gay person without being one. Frex, I’m glad Roy Cohn is dead and I only wish the circumstances of his life had been more personally painful.
But I don’t hate all gays. Or conservatives.
See how there’s a difference between disliking an individual and an entire group?
Also, it seem to me that although as you are the OP and have set the terms of this debate accordingly, there’s something dishonest in your approach. Essentially, you are the one making extraordinary claims, i.e., that Helms was not a racist, bigoted homophobe and friend to murderous dictators like Saddam Hussein. Generally, the principle is that a person making extraordinary claims must provide extraordinarily clear and convincing proof of those claims.
Just muttering “media bias” at all the written reports of Helms’ scumminess hardly constitute clear and convincing proof. The onus is really on you to show why all those media reports of Helms’ racism, bigotry, dictator-supporting, etc., are not accurate, and to present us with a model of Helms that’s consistent with his voting record and his public comments and also consistent with his being a decent human being.
Good. Fucking. Luck.