She’s one of those fiery independent women that can and will do everything on her own, regardless of her condition.
She’s very very sick…trying to get a doctors appointment and home in bed. She’s a Manager at a Best Buy retail store and she’s trying to get off of work but no one is available to cover her shift today(holiday business). I can see that she is not physically capable of running a busy as hell retail store and dealing with the public for the next eight hours, but she’s one of those people that will go and make her illness worse just to avoid putting anyone out.
I don’t know how to approach her in the right way, she can’t do this, I can see it, she refuses to accept that, and I want to be the supportive, but firm one in this situation.
I guess my question is twofold:
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How can I approach her and convince her to stay home, but not come off as trying to control her? She really is extremely sick, I suspect that its the flu, but I also suspect that she has a touch of reccuring pneumonia. If a doctor was to make the call, he’d demand she stay home, of that I have no question!
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If I successfully convince her to stay home, how can I take care of her. I didn’t get sick much growing up and I don’t know how to be a nurse. Her parents are out of town for a few days so I have to be the caretaker(willingly) and I don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable.
A. Whats the best way to care for a flu/pneumonia person?
B. Does she need lots of fluids?
C. Should I let her sleep a lot?
D. How often do I check her temp?
E. Is there anything I should watch for that indicates she needs to go to the hospital?
F. What should I make for her to eat?
G. Should I stay close and touch or give her plenty of space?
I appreciate any advice, also, I’d appreciate any info you guys have on medicines or home remedies that may help ease her discomfort. She’s got a lot of body aches and pains and she’s almost to the point of tears every few minutes.
Just tell me how your husband treats you when your sick that feels best, thats all I really want to do for her.
Thanks,
-SS