Mom was VERY wrong.
I think that the above lists pretty much cover everything (although I found some things rather anal). For me, the biggest turn off in ANYONE is a closed mind and an unwillingness to agree to disagree without getting an attitude.
Well I am sincerely hopign that I don’t find all of those qualities in the asme man but at the risk of TMI, I’ll explain to you…
If a guy gets up and zips up before he completely loses his post sex hard-on…that is too soon. (Had a guy do this once and it wasn’t a fly-by-night…it was a guy I’d been seeing a while. Totally pissed me off)
But when a guy is still at my house at noon the next day, I want to kick him out and tell him I have other things to do.
There is a happy medium. Stay the night or not.If he doesn’t, at least hang around for a post-sex snuggle (I Think this is important to a lot of women) if he does stay the night then leave after breakfast and a shower at the latest unless you are ready to propose marriage.
Does that make it easier to understand Dave?
When I worte that I was thinking of someone in particulkar. HE has NO MALE friends. HE’s slept with probably 75% of them and considering he comes and tells me about all of them, I am guessing he tells them about me…not a turn on at all.
Yeah I have been told I am picky but I haven’t run out of dates yet so I guessI can still afford to be.
OMG - I forgot that one. I went out with a guy last August and our entire conversation was all about his travels in Europe. I lived in Europe for 10 years but he didn’t know that and a lot of what he said was just BULL SHIT. So I started really asking detaileld questions and he continued to LIE TO ME. I was getting so irritated with him I barely kept it together. I never gave him the time of day again and never even offered the courtesy of letting him know what a fake and phony I knew he was.:dubious:
So are you asking me out? I’m free on Saturday, just be gone by noon on Sunday. 
(And I was kidding about marriage) it’s just a personal preference, there aren’t many men I want to be around that long.
So are you asking me out? I’m free on Saturday, just be gone by noon on Sunday.
(And I was kidding about marriage) it’s just a personal preference, there aren’t many men I want to be around that long.
Hm. Highly unlikely, but I’ll consider your position.
[sub]Sorry, but southern mothers are never wrong. They’re only misled.[/sub]
I’d love to but, while I’m pretty sure I know how to get to Dementia, I’m not sure I’d be able to find my way back. 
I like Boston…
It’s hard for me to pin down generalities, but I can sure mention some specific things that have completely turned me off:
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in a discussion, he dismissed evolution as being “just a theory”. I guess I get turned off by creationism and blatant stupidity.
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another guy - a teacher, like me - complained endlessly about how lazy and stupid his kids were. Hey, I have rough days in the classroom too, but when I talk about my kids to new people, I always have something good to say about them. So call me turned off by negativity and burn-out.
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same guy carried on for half an hour about his evil ex-wife and at one point even asked me if he should pay her back the money she said he owed her for medical expenses for the kids. Yeah, I’m turned off by excess baggage, an inability to remove TMI topics from a first date, and unbelievable pettiness over money the kids need for braces.
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driving like an asshole, being rude to waitstaff or spending the entire date angry at something is another.
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acting surprised that I can hold up my end of a conversation on computers, software, action movies, or literature.
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mentioning casual drug use and then acting like I’m sort uptight squick if I don’t immediately ask for some too.
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launching a “monogamy is evil” campaign at the dinner table.
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making comments about “fat ass chicks” and expecting me not to get upset.
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making comments about “goddamn fags” and expecting me to nod my head in agreement.
Just call the story of my life phouka and the terrible, horrible, no good, very bad dates.
Give me a citation in a peer reviewed, scientific journal that says that reluctant public dancers are poor lovers in private, or I want to see you retract that statement.
It’s stereotypes like that that prevent guys like me from getting any nookie.
What’s up with all this badmouthing of unibrows? Do your prejudices know no bounds?!
I bet you hate nipple hair too! Well, I shave my nipple hair a couple times a week, but it grows really fast! And do you know how impractical it is to shave that narrow space between one eyebrow and the other eyebrow?
sobs uncontrollably and runs away
You could try plucking…I use to pluck my exes unibrow. Now THAT is love
QUOTE]*Originally posted by Blalron *
**Give me a citation in a peer reviewed, scientific journal that says that reluctant public dancers are poor lovers in private, or I want to see you retract that statement.
It’s stereotypes like that that prevent guys like me from getting any nookie. **
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Not sure about the correlation between having no rhythm and getting no nookie but a sense of humor definitely helps your game
The question of what turns off or on a woman is really short sighted. The simple fact is what one woman finds unattractive, I can show you a different woman that would find that particular attribute attractive. And believe it or not, even things like BO and smelly feet. There are some really strange people in the world. It’s like people that throw out “facts”. Show me a “fact” and I can show you another “fact” to refute it.
“Did I hear a niner in there?”