Nice- When used to describe a person, I find ‘nice’ to be a very weak adjective. I guess because of the association of ‘nice’ guys, I find the word to be very two faced. On the surface people think “moderately good”, but i’ve found people use nice when they cant think of anything specific about the person they like or respect. Personally I believe the significance of a compliment is based on how specific it is. describing someone as ‘generous’ instead of just ‘nice’ for example. Nice is a watered-down, lukewarm tea of a word, a cheap, uncreative wedding gift, the trophy they give the last place competitor for ‘trying’.
Mean- This is another vague word I dislike. Many times people will describe someone as ‘mean’ when subjected to constructive criticism. At some point in our lives we have to come to realize we are not some Special Snowflake, and part of that revelation comes from people in our lives who knock us down a peg. Since the person giving the criticism is well-meaning, it might be hard for a person to articulate why they dont like what they are hearing. People often use ‘mean’ at individuals who are telling/doing something we dont want or cannot accept. When they are doing something genuinely mean-spirited, its better and easier to use something more specific (rude, sadistic, spiteful, ignorant, etc)
I have to agree with nice, although I particularly loathe when it is used by someone to dismiss what the the other person is saying. For instance, you’re telling a co-worker something and they reply “thats nice”, and immediately change the subject. The same goes for assholes who use “uh hu” and “yeah” in the same manner.
Like: “So this dude was all like ‘man, you should seen this chick…’”
“Don’t mess with that dog, or he’ll just like, rip your face off”.
I notice a common pitfall with resumes is stuff like this. People try to fluff up their accomplishments with flowey language, and just end up coming off vague.