Same back at you. Thanks for the clarification.
It seems to me that perhaps some of the problem may be due to pressures people feel to achieve a certain income level, in order to afford a certain lifestyle. Add to this that there may be a disjunct, at least for many people, between the jobs they would most enjoy, as opposed to the jobs they are qualified to perform that would pay the most.
So I suspect you have large numbers of people going into careers that they will never be satisfied with. And once you get used to a certain standard of living, it is hard to do a 180.
Do not think for a moment that I am bemoaning my situation, but I will use myself as an example.
I am a lawyer. I work 40 hours a week, make just under $100G, never bring work home, and never work weekends. I have been at this job for 15 years. If I stick 15 more, I can retire at age 56 with a really good package, 2 years after my youngest gets out of college.
While I get absolutely no satisfaction from my job beyond my paycheck, it supports a decent lifestyle and does not detract from my personal life.
What are my alternatives? Yes, I could get many law jobs that pay more, but I really don’t desire to do any particular kind of law, and most other law jobs would require far more time - including time from my family. Nor do I imagine myself getting tremendous fulfillment from any other “business”, teaching, or consulting jobs.
What would I like to do? Well, I don’t imagine too terribly many folks offering me 6 figures to read books or drink beer. And my golf game isn’t quite good enough to join the PGA. I like landscape design and maintainance. Let’s see - if I would learn to speak Spanish, I might be able to make a 3d of what I make now. Tough choice!
Now what I wish I had done was more fully consider my options when in school. If I had not felt an obligation to follow a “traditional” job path, I might have majored in ornamental horticulture. Or gotten a job with the forest service. Or as a teaching pro at a golf course. Of course few, if any, of those jobs pay anywhere near what I make. But if I had never gotten used to making this amount of money in the first place, perhaps I would not have missed it. And the enjoyment I would get out of my job would go a long way towards making up for any lack of earning potential and accompanying consumenr goods.
But when I was in school, I was not strong, creative, and foresightful enough to include such options in my vision.
As a parent, I see as one of my main goals trying to help my kids identify things that give them joy, and help them figure a way to scratch out a decent living while pursuing them. I hope they don’t restrict their vision of the future to only jobs that pay a certain amount.