Speaking personally, I have a lot more patience for new tanks (healers, DPS, whatever) who *up-front tell the group *that they’re new to their role (or new to the role for that class). Also, don’t be afraid to mark targets for DPS to focus on until you get more comfortable with your AOE abilities. If you give them a target to concentrate on and they peel something else, you have a definite thing to yell at them for.
Yeah, that was going to be my question. Did the person get a “You are not in a guild” message (bug), or did they actually see no guild name over their head, the guild tab grayed out, their guild tabard blank, etc.?
1.) Is Growl your taunt? If so, you probably don’t want to spam it, if that’s something you’re doing (a little hard to tell from the way you phrased it). A taunt doesn’t generally create threat in and of itself; what it does is set your threat equal to the person at the top of that mob’s list and force it to attack you. That means that if you’re #1 on the list, all it does it put your taunt on CD where you can’t use it a second later when someone actually *does *pull.
2.) If Demo Roar is anything like Demo Shout, it’s a useful debuff but doesn’t create much threat. You can squeeze it in when you’re ahead on threat and you’ve got nothing better to do with your Rage, but you probably don’t want to use it to try to keep aggro.
I’ve never had this fail to work. The moron always (a) shapes up or (b) ships out, and DPS are trivially easy to replace.
To me, it seems a little odd to put your hearth in SW instead of Dal. If it’s in SW, that’s the only place you can go. But if it’s in Dal, you can just run five feet to the portal to SW… or to IF, or Darn, or the Exo, or Shatt, or anywhere in Northrend. Sure, a SW hearth would put you in the Trade district instead of the Magic one, but that’s, what, an extra 15 seconds of riding? YMMV, as always; I just know I’d do it differently.