Not much of a worrier much less a prayer, but I sort of like the idea and feel of them in my hand but have resisted the urge to get a set because I thought it would seem too much of an affectation.
What would you think if you saw a guy, absent mindedly handling a strand in public while at a coffee shop or something?
I still have several sets I picked up in Greece during my travels. If I saw someone with a set in public, I would assume that he was Greek, or from the Eastern Med at any rate.
Yeah, you can’t worry about worry beads. It throws the universe off-balance.
But really, I’d think nothing of seeing a man playing with worry beads. Unless he’s making a racket with the damn things, in which case I may have to strangle him with them.
I have a “worry stone”. Just a flat piece of stone, polished, and you rub it with your thumb. The advertisement claimed whichever stone you picked would “cleanse” your worries somehow. :rolleyes: I just got it because it was 50 cents and I like rocks. I like stroking this rock. I keep it in my purse, and no one has ever said anything negative about it - I’ve had a couple of people ask me what it was, and I just hold it up and say “It’s a pretty rock.”
Here are some that look kind of like mine, but mine is green. Ignore the mumbo-jumbo about how the stone transmits waves of calmness or whatever the heck it said. Sure, I use one, but only because it beats the heck out of chewing my hood strings.
I would react similarly - either he is Greek or picked up on the tradition (I would assume by travel). Many members of the Greek side of my family had them.
If I saw you handling them, I would be intrigued to ask how you know about the tradition, but I wouldn’t think it was an affectation unless you were deliberately being showy about it (someone oh-so-subtly showing off their new cell phone or iPod to the world, for example).
I used to have worry stones, but I now have the best fidget toy known to man: the key to my Volkswagon. Damn, that thing just never gets old.
<click, click, click, click>
I bought two sets in Greece. They are packed away somewhere though
I would think the person is Greek or has been to Greece if I saw them with them. But none of us that traveled to Greece (about 12 teenagers on a school trip) had ever seen them or heard of them before, so a lot of people might just figure you’re just swinging around some beads.
I used them for awhile. I quite like the noise my silver set makes, kind of soothing actually, not rackety (least not to my ears). But they were more of a trip novelty I suppose.