If you told me(a gay man) that homosexuality is disgusting and perverted I’d most certainly consider you a homophobic bigot. I wouldn’t think you were closeted.
If you read Carl Jung, you will see that more women than not think with feelings or emotions greater than with logic.
Hormones, emotions, relationships with mothers and fathers play a large part in women selecting women over men…many female homosexuals will often switch to heterosexuality depending on the circumstance.
Cite?
I’ll let Oliver defend his own case.
But in dealing with this sort of argument, I always make the case that I have never seen a gay male aver that being gay was a choice for him, or that he was able to change sexuality without divine intervention. (There are a few ex-gay people around, of both sexes, who claim to have experienced a change in orientation by a combination of God intervening in their lives and their own ongoing efforts; I give their asseverations the same respect that I do a gay man stating that his homosexuality was not a choice and not possible to change.)
But the point I’m seeking to make here is that there appear to be a small population of women who self-identify as “Lesbian” but who would be classed by an objective student of sexual orientation as bisexual. I.e., they are capable of feeling attraction for both males and females, but focus on their attraction to females owing to bad experiences with males, usually but not always from an extreme dominance or molestation scenario. These women are quite capable of forming a healthy sexual relationship with a considerate male after processing the traumatic experiences, and often take a dichotomic approach to orientation and claim to have changed from Lesbian to straight. In point of fact, their actual orientation, discounting for the effects of the traumatic experience, remains bisexual throughout, although a shift in focus occurs.
This may very well be what Oliver is talking about.
A bit more loqacious but you are correct…in any case, as long as we are not physically or emotionally involved…let gays be gays and leave them alone.
But in dealing with this sort of argument, I always make the case that I have never seen a gay male aver that being gay was a choice for him, or that he was able to change sexuality without divine intervention.
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Sadly, Divine passed away several years ago and I don’t see how he/she could have helped a gay male change his sexuality.
Hold on here. What happened before it had evolved? A bad fit? No reproduction then.