Would you still use it?

A thread about ownership got me thinking about something. If ex gave you sexual gift would you use them with another partnet? If your ex gave you sex toys or lingerie?

Poll coming.

Heh.

Oh, hell no. That’s just…tacky.

Certainly. I mean, clean them up after use and there’s no reason not to continue using them. It’s not like they’re nasty toothbrushes or something. Plus they’re expensive! I’m not going to throw away a perfectly servicable tool!

I’m tempted to say no, but on the other hand, I’ve been using the same penis for quite some time…

It would depend on the nature of the gift and the nature of the breakup that led to the ex being an ex. Nothing is that cut and dry, especially in human relationships.

Um, of course. A sex toy is just an object. It isn’t magically imbued with relationship essense. Well, I mean, not if you wash it properly.

And word to ** Arrendajo** – good quality toys are expensive. I wouldn’t throw away a tv just because my ex gave it to me and we watched it together.

It depends on the gift. I don’t think it matters if I wear a pair of sexy underwear for Girl #1 or Girl #2. But anything involving juices or secretions or whatever, I suspect Girl #2 wouldn’t want to share with Girl #1.

It’s the unwritten lesbian law that you always acquire new sex toys when you have a new partner. Not because the old ones are dirty, it just seems… impolite? Insensitive? You don’t need to know that your girlfriend’s ex gave her a leopard print dildo, let alone use it.