You were walking down the aisle in skin tight pants and shirt. I have to admit, you were looking pretty sexy. I casually looked your way, our eyes met, and you gave me this look of utter disdain as though I had just grabbed my crotch and leered at you.
To start, I didn’t gawk, I didn’t stare at your tits, all I did was look at you.
Second, If you don’t want people staring at your tits, perhaps you shouldn’t be wearing a skin tight shirt showing a mile of cleavage.
I’m not a scuzzball, I’m not some womanizing prick who has no respect for you(funny that you seem to pick those types pretty often) I have a great deal of respect for women, I also happen to be attracted to them…so fucking sue me!
I have a theory, perhaps it isn’t people looking at your body that offends you but rather the fact that it’s the wrong people looking. I’m sure you wouldn’t be too upset if that really buff guy over there was staring at you.
Oh and BTW, your snotty attitude completely negates any attraction I had for you. I would just as soon go home and jack off.
Ya know, I never understood that “I can dress as revealing as I want and you better not look at me!” attitude.
I see it often on my college campus.
Tall, leggy female in a very short skirt that, I swear, barely covered her ass when she walked, was bitching in class one day because she couldn’t walk across campus without someone nearly killing themselves to watch her walk away.
“Well, d’uh,” says I. “I’m female and I’m looking! If you don’t want people looking, don’t dress like that.”
“I dress this way for me! It looks good!”
Well, yes, yes it does. But who do you want to think you look good? Everybody that’s looking!
Dentarthurdent- Get used to it. Most women are suckers for attention. Only it has to be the kind of attention they want. They want good looking,attractive men to look at them. If a mans looks or attractiveness are’nt up to the chicks expectations, then the man better not even THINK of looking.
Women who do this get a big bonus. Not only do they exert power over others (especially men), but they also get to claim victim status. IMHO, this problem occurs with any number of attention getting devices. Many people want to make a “statement”, but they want to whine if anyone responds to that statement. Somewhere along the line people conflated ideas about freedom of speech and freedom from discrimination to create the “right” to say what you want without having to deal with any feedback.
Hey, if I’m wearing something either short, low-cut or both, I expect men to look, that’s why I’m wearing it! Sometimes if a man is really staring or otherwise being creepy, then of course I don’t like that, but admiring looks are both expected and appreciated for the most part. It’s actually very few women who have that “Don’t look at me in my hoochie mama outfit” attitude, but those tend to be the ones that stick in your memory.
So all you did was glance at her, and she glared at you?
What the hell? I mean, I look at people all the time-not even good looking people, I just like to watch people.
Many of my lady friends claim that they go out dressed to the nines just as much, if not more, to show off what they have to other girls. Not as much in a sexual “Hey look at me and think I’m hot,” as in “Look what I have and you don’t”.
Are these girls bullshitting me, or are they really doing it to show off, rather than attract the attention of a bunch of guys? Obviously they are well aware of the fact that guys will look too…
if i go out all dressed up and lookin’ snazzy, i’d be offended if people didn’t look. at least, it’d make me feel kind of bad about myself. i do, however, think it’s kind of cute when the s.o. glares at guys who stare at me. it’s sweet.
the only thing i don’t like is when i’m walking to the store, dressed like a normal human being, and guys are practically falling out of their cars staring at me. that’s just weird, and i don’t really understand it. i’m not all that interesting to look at.
Xploder is at his job, (where Mrs Xploder also works) and a coworker shows up in a slit skirt and extremely low cut blouse. Xploder, being the guy that he is, looks at her because, frankly, she’s beautiful whatever she wears.
End result:
Xploder gets to go to his manager and explain how he wasn’t sexually harrasing said coworker.
sigh…if yer gonna dress like that, we’re gonna look dammit!
What I like to do when a gorgeous woman won’t give me the time of day is stand as close as them as I can and then rip the loudest, smelliest fart I can manage. The satisfaction their horrified looks of disgust brings me is beyond words.
I think something that might work even better is figuring out how to surreptitiously put some kind of substance on them that smells REALLY BAD. But I’ve never figured out how to do this, or what kind of substance to use.
FTR, as everyone who has ever been to a Dopefest with me can attest, I like it when men look at my tits–hell, I spent half the night at ChiDope flashing my cleavage. So clearly, the solution for all you men who have had problems with women being stupid is to go to more Dopefests!
I personally don’t dress for other women. I’m not into competing for attention, I’m not bothered if other ladies are getting looked at, if a guy is interested in someone else, shrug c’est la vie. Then again, I’m not all that insecure. A lot of women are.
I 100% agree with and totally endorse the OP. If women don’t want to be looked upon as sluts, then don’t DRESS LIKE SLUTS!
I don’t care what you tell me . . any woman that shows cleavage . .wears tight mini skirts . . or otherwise dresses in a provacative way WANTS men to stare at her. Any woman that objects to men leering at her when she is dressed this way is anothing but a dicktease. And she has ZERO right to judge WHO leers nat her.
“Why shouldn’t I dress sexy and not be looked upon as a sex object?”
Well, by your own words, you intentionally dressed in a way to invite horny men to slobber all over you. If you don’t like that, then wear a pantsiut!
