I just had to get this out of my system.
I just bought a new iMac. I just sold my old one (they retain a lot of their value) and sprung for a new one. Woo hoo!
But one of my friends, irked that I am buying Apple products, went on and on about the cost. About how much more this piece of hardware costs on a Mac, how much more he can get for the same amount of money when going with a PC, and on and on. To which I replied, in a bright, happy tone, “I know!”
He just couldn’t get this. He expected me to be sullen, or resentful by his profound truths. So he just kept on telling me how much money I would have saved had I gotten a new PC.
Listen. I KNOW IT COSTS MORE!!! I am getting the bill for it, I KNOW! I saw the prices in the Mac catalog when I placed the order. I KNEW BEFORE I BOUGHT IT! Yeah. Really. I love Macintoshes, and am willing to pay a little extra to have one. It is worth it to me.
I wanted it. I know what I want. It’s my money. I choose certain things for a reason. Especially something as expensive as a computer. Yeah. Amazing as it may seem, I actually know my own mind.
Same goes for lipsticks, jeans, shampoo, or just about anything else. I am not usually extravagant, but once in a while, there are certain items that I allow myself to have. The bath soap specially made in the little town in Ferndale, CA. The $18 lipsticks I occasionally buy. And a few other things.
I am able to afford these nice little things (within reason) and I WILL BUY THEM. I am not hitting you up for money, so why do you care that I spend a little “extra” for something that is important to me? Sure, I understand that if you feel I am paying too much for a certain thing, you want to tell me that. I understand, I appreciate that. I would do the same thing for you. But if it’s obvious that I prefer the more expensive item, and I am not constantly broke, asking you for money, WHY DO YOU BOTHER ME ABOUT IT?!?
I have a feeling that I am not the only person who has encountered this sort of attitude.