How about a Maltese (check out the pictures of Gizmo the Maltese puppies on the second page!! He’s so CUTE!)? They’re small and will do fine in an apartment without a yard. They’re really shy and curious when they’re puppies. When we first brought our dog, Cherry, to our townhouse, the first thing she did was sniff everything. Maltese are also good for allergy sufferers. They shed hardly any fur. As for stairs, Cherry learned all by herself! My brother and I tried gently pushing her up one stair and giving her a treat. So, we bent down to get another treat for her and suddenly, she was already halfway up the staircase! Then, she got to the top and started whimpering (aww!) because she realized she couldn’t get down. She learned to go down the stairs when I took her to my friend’s house. My friend’s dog is older and started running up and down the stairs. Cherry followed her up and when my friend’s dog went downstairs, Cherry just tried going down the stairs all by herself. Of course, I had to give her a lot of treats for that.
It was also really easy to housebreak my dog. She did have a couple of mishaps, but that happens with puppies. Maltese are also very intelligent, but they want rewards for everything, so you have to give them treats all the time. They’re also somewhat picky eaters, so a treat or two should be put in their food.
As for grooming, they border on high-maintenance. We don’t have enough money or time to take Cherry to a groomer’s, so we bathe her by ourselves. They require brushing every now and then because their fur will tangle really easily. Once their fur tangles, you have to cut it all off, unfortunately (we had to do this a couple of times…Cherry ended up looking like a lamb). And Maltese don’t need to have their fur long like the show dogs. I don’t grow Cherry’s hair long. It’ll cause way too much grief. They look cuter with shorter fur, anyways.
Maltese bark at suspicious noises, so that could be a problem. But, since you live in an apartment, it doesn’t seem like it would to me. We live in a townhouse and if our neighbour goes outside to his/her backyard, we can hear him/her talking from our backyard. My dog immediately starts barking because she hears someone, but she can’t see him/her.
I was going to get a Coton de Tulear, but we couldn’t find a breeder near us. Good luck with everything!!
By the way, I now have an excuse to show Cherry’s cuteness: here she is, and here and here.
monica, Mia is adorable!! I love that picture of her enjoying Dairy Queen.