BunnyGirl, my apologies for being so harsh; I should have conveyed my content more meaningfully.
First, it matters a great deal what is legal and what is not in wartime, or else the Geneva Convention and concepts like “war crimes” would not exist. Furthermore, the U.S. has decided that it is not in its interests to target foreign heads of state for assassination, and we therefore do not.
We had an identifiable goal in the Gulf, and we acheived it: Remove the Iraqi army from Kuwait. We had no reason to enter Iraq, drive towards the capital, and target Hussein personally for elimination. That isn’t how the military conducts its business and you know it.
As far as my experiences as an army brat, “bitter” is the farthest word in the world to describe it. In fact, that part of my youth was much more enjoyable than the part after my parents’ divorce. I got to travel, and I got to live in Europe for three years. Of course, as soon as my parents divorced, my father got stationed at Schofield Barracks, Hawaii–go figure.
I do, however, resent the implication that those who serve in the military are superior citizens. That isn’t true, and you know that, as well. The military isn’t for everyone.
Finally, if I am venomous on the subject of nationalism, it is because I throw it into the same category as religion and race–it is ultimately divisive rather than unifying, and the last thing the world needs is more division and more reason to be hostile.
Again, my apologies for the attack.