Actually, no, I don’t know if you think that or not. There are still plenty of people who think black folks should sit in the back of the bus or who otherwise would like to return to the shameful days of segregation of the races. You might even be one of them. Or might not. I don’t know yet.
And if you don’t want to be offended stay out of the Pit. I come here to rant. If this was to be merely a descriptive, feel-good exercise it would be in MPSIMS.
It’s been my experience that, by and large, bigots don’t want to be educated. And, I’d say denying this man a choice of seat and then pushing him towards the “segregated” seats against his expressed desires IS, most certainly, BIGOTRY. Ignorance would be “Oh, sorry, I thought you might want to sit there.” Saying “You MUST sit there” is bigotry. At a certain point ignorance is no longer a valid excuse. If you wouldn’t treat any other adult male human being in that manner then you are judging him based SOLELY on his disability, in an area where that disability is irrelevant. That’s prejudice. That’s bigotry. Granted, it’s not on the same level as a lynching, but the fact it’s not life-threatening in no way pardons it.
I expect she would have remained an ignorant, bigotted busy-body regardless of what I had done.
You guess it would have been embarassing? You mean there is some uncertainly in your mind about this? OF COURSE it would have been embarassing to the blind man!
Upset? No… mostly just irritated and sad that people are so damn narrow-minded.
Problem is, there are so damn many of them. And it’s NOT a matter of “giving offense” (although offense is given), it’s a matter of EQUALITY - of being treated as a competant, adult human being capable of making his own decisions, capable of taking care of himself.
You can’t force someone to learn anything - they have to have some interest in learning. Artificial applications of force (the learn this or die approach) may cause a brief upswing in rote memorization, but you can NOT forcibly change ingrained belief systems. At most I might have been able to wedge a new thought in through the cracks - a “have you ever considered X” approach - but it will NOT change a fundamental belief that the handicapped are helpless and must be “protected” or segregated - either for their own good or someone else’s comfort.
Nope. Not long-term at least. Maybe it’s different over in England, perhaps you have more pressure to comform to the norms of your society. Here in the US, it’s quite possible to find an enclave of fellow bigots in which to exist in a never-never land where you needn’t encounter “those” people. Overt displays of bigotry are forbidden on a social level in a large urban area such as I live in, but that only means it’s driven underground.
It was not the woman’s words so much as her actions that were offensive. Saying “I’ll help you” while wacking someone over the head with a stick doesn’t make sense - and it makes even less sense to trust the words as opposed to the actions. She said she wanted to help, but acted in a rude, boorish, and intolerant manner.