I guess my punishment for keeping a 'blog (and stupidly not restricting to friends-only, which I’m thinking of doing after this) is that from time to time I get anon. note-leavers who just leave mean, hateful notes that fucking piss me off no end.
Like today…today’s entry was about my anxiety about not being able to stay home after the baby’s born, but having to go right back to work after maybe a week or two. I wrote about the shit I’m feeling about how worried I am about daycare, not being able to stay home all the time, stuff like that and then this fucktard comes in and tells me it’s my DUTY as a woman to stay home and be a mom. To ‘think about someone else for once in your life’.
Grr. I am thinking about someone else…the baby. I’m taking better care of myself than I had been and the reason I’m going back to work rather than staying home (other than we can’t afford it) is so that I can provide a better life for my child than my parents provided for me.
I hate it when people leave anon. notes…it bugs me because it means you are a coward who can’t even leave their own name (or at the very least, your usual 'net handle) on a note to someone you don’t even know.