I’m unemployed, and trying to find another job. I’m trying to study for a Red Hat Linux certification, in hopes that that will make it easier for me to find a good job.
I’m scared. I’m scared that I’m not good enough to learn all the stuff I’d need for the certification test. I’m scared that I’ll never be able to find a job that I like and am good at.
I’m married to a man who’s doing what I thought I wanted to do (he’s an astronomer). He’s doing well at it- he just got another big grant. I’m happy for him, but it makes me feel like even more of a failure. I wonder if he felt this way when I had a good job making decent money and he was still a post-doc.
Thank you for the hug! It meant a lot to me… more than you know.
I’ve had an idea about your situation and your guy as to how it might work out in your favor. Its going pretty far out on a limb and it probably wouldn’t be responsible for me to post it.
(Even divorce attorneys are allowed discovery)
I put it in a PM, so if its a really really bad idea, you can always laugh at it & delete the PM and I won’t be laughed at into the next century.
Well, for that anyway.
I really do wish you the best of luck & that it all works out for the best for you. You’re good people & you deserve to be happy.