I’ve done it, again - this time not in an Internet forum but in an e-mail to a colleague. As I have observed this phenomenon so often - with others as well with myself - I assume there must be a canonical name for this law/rule:
A message criticising someone else’s spelling or grammar will humiliate its originator by containing a glaring spelling/grammar mistake itself
I personally observed this (just for spelling) a long time ago. I thought I’d posted it on Usenet back in the '80s under the name Tilque’s Law, but Google Groups doesn’t have it. Not that that means much, as I understand there are gaps in Google’s Usenet archives from those days. I also doubt if I was the first to make such an observation.