Not a poll to find out if you’re not into coprophilia or similar. Just nice “normal” sex & foreplay stuff.
Not into kissing? Won’t give/receive felatio/cunnilingus? (Common enough to be “normal” IMO). Immune to intercourse?
I was courting a woman during my latest dating period who admitted to me that she was almost completely immune to the pleasures of regular sex. Yeah, there was the closeness but there was never going to be an orgasm or even much sexual pleasure for her. She could masturbate herself to an orgasm but what she described was almost Yoga: a way of positioning her legs, clamping her knees together, and exercising her way to orgasm.
I tried to go down on my wife the other day and she just pulled me up - she’s very rarely receptive to cunnilingus - usually it just tickles she says. Just the touch of my hand down there can set her giggling. She also goes from 0 to 60 in like 5 seconds. Foreplay is almost wasted on her. (She says I’ll get no sympathy from men on this, though.)
Me? Kissing is fun but not a way to really get in turned on. It’s like step 1 of the many-step arousal process. I’ll never get beyond “Hmm, this is promising” with just lip-to-lip kissing. I’m not indifferent to it, it’s just not at all the set-my-loins-aflame thing I thought it would be when I was young and inexperienced.
I had a girlfriend a while back who refused to let me go down on her. She wasn’t antisexual or anything, she loved knockin’ boots, but she was simply embarrassed about the look of her girl parts and didn’t want anybody getting that close. Made me sad.
For my part: Is a three-way common? Because I’m really not interested.
Anal. Tried it a few times and never understood the appeal of it. Even with a partner who was into it, we found it to be painful for her, and far too much work when there is a vagina ready made for the purpose.
I *just * got done having a conversation with The Lad about this (and I’m at my desk at work )whereby I dashed his hopes of the old 69. I like giving *and * receiving, but not at the same time. I find it too distracting. I guess I’m not much of a multitasker.
I won’t refuse being the provider of oral sex, but it doesn’t do much for me… might, I suppose, if I were with someone who really went wild from it but that hasn’t happened…
Will refuse being on the receiving end. I just don’t like mouths that much. Not warm enough, and food particles and stuff, yecch.
I wouldn’t say there’s anything ordinary I wouldn’t do, but I dated one girl who didn’t like to receive oral (very uptight about her “area,” as it were…she hated me even looking at her “down there” most of the time!)
I also dated two other girls who hated giving oral.
I’m not a fan of receiving oral (I’m a woman). I used to be into it but I had a bad experience with a dude who made me feel weird about it, so I am not into it anymore. The last guy I dated wasn’t into giving it anyway so it worked out.
I don’t like receiving anal but I’ve tried it a few times. It’s very strangely tedious and uncomfortable. Does nothing for me.
OK, I can see the botttom of my bottle now, so I guess it’s time to answer the question …
What was the question again?
Oh, right … Um, I can’t think of anything I wouldn’t at least try. There are things I’ve tried that didn’t do much for me, so I, probably wouldn’t try them again, but I’m not sure if they count as comomon. (Bondage, for example … but I don’t know how many people really do that.)
Anal is gross and painful and not remotely pleasurable and I don’t understand why anyone would want to do that. (Ok, I understand why dudes would want to do it… to a woman or to one another… but I’m not grasping how any woman could find it pleasurable.)
)whereby I dashed his hopes of the old 69. I like giving *and * receiving, but not at the same time. I find it too distracting. I guess I’m not much of a multitasker.