Just curious to hear from both genders on why they do or do not enjoy. Thanks. =) (If this belongs in the opinion area, I’m sorry moderators, I couldn’t decide.)
Straight male. Only done anal penetration a few times, found the sensation pleasurable, but not a regular thing for my wife and myself. On the other hand, just playing in that area with fingers, thumb and tongue (only after a shower so everyone’s nice and clean) really spices things up and produces far stronger orgasms for her both during cunnilingus and intercourse - especially during rear entry (aka “doggy style”).
If you’re fastidious or worried about oral/anal contact (20+ years of it hasn’t done me any harm) use Saran Wrap as a barrier. Ignore the advice to use a “dental dam” or a split condom - both are very difficult to hold on to. Saran Wrap is perfectly fine, and you can have a nice big handful to hold on to. Put some lube on the assward side and go to town. Otherwise, pick one finger or thumb for anal play and use it for that exclusively.
I don’t think I’ve ever heard the phrase “assward side.” And I don’t know why I’m laughing so hard at it.
Gay male. I haven’t tried topping in about 40 years. Though I tried, I could never have an orgasm that way. And bottoming? I’ve done that exactly once, just out of curiosity. I found it to be very uncomfortable, and I couldn’t wait for the guy to finish.
You have a better phrase, Mr Smartypants?
Straight female. I tried it once about 20 years ago and just couldn’t do it. Tried it again with my current companion and really enjoyed it. I was even the one to suggest it! Downside is lots o’ gas the next day and a little bit of discomfort. Be sure to lube like there’s no tomorrow or there will be blood.
great film, btw.
We do it occasionally - actually not as much as we used to. The thing is, I mostly do it because he enjoys it so much. It can be pleasurable, but over half the time it’s a bit uncomfortable for me. You just have to take it reeeeeeeeeally slow and he tends to be a little impatient sometimes, which makes me protest, which causes him to be overly apologetic and then terrified to continue, and … yeah, usually breaks the mood. Also I tend to find it difficult to relax fully no matter how many times we do it.
When everything is done right, though, it’s pretty good. 
(Straight male) I’ve tried it several times and have enjoyed it. Just MHO, but I think that it’s enjoyable because A; it’s “naughty” and B; the Anus is a muscle that mainly contracts, hence tighter then a vagina. The few times I’ve received anal insertion (finger or sex toy), I’m assuming it was the massaging of the prostate gland that made it feel good. Insertion was accompanied by oral sex, so that was part of the pleasure.
My wife and I have tried it 3 times (her twice, me once) in the 12 years we’ve been together. Both times she received, she found it uncomfortable, so we didn’t continue. I enjoyed both giving and receiving, but her dislike of both anal and (giving) oral rendered it a moot point.
Straight male. I’ve never had any interest in it, and have turned down the offer at least twice. In retrospect, that may have been rude, but both ladies seemed relieved.
It sounds gross; possibly messy. Since most women don’t care for it, if I don’t either, what’s the point? I can’t get into something if I think my partner’s not enjoying it; to me it ruins the mood.
I also hate the fact that it’s hard to find porn without it these days. Blech.
Straight male, and no thanks. When I’m wiping my ass, if I accidentally get shit on my fingers I can barely handle the grossness. I certainly don’t want someone else’s all over my dong, thank you very much.
I don’t know about your partners’ bathroom habits, but I’ve been the penetrator several times with my dick and countless times with my fingers and tongue and have never emerged with the least bit of residue.
I enjoy giving because it’s a considerably snugger fit than the vagina, and during my wife’s orgasm it squeezes and undulates and creates an amazing sensation on my dick. Plus the whole ‘taboo’ aspect of it is a huge turn-on. Getting involved in it requires slow, deliberate attention, so when we have the time and we know that there’s no chance of one of the kids interrupting us, it really adds to the lovemaking session.
Is that what it was about?
Oscar nominating people really stepped out this year.
it’s snug. it’s variety.
only way can get all of it in.
rear entry ass elevated stimulates her in a way which gives her gigantic orgasms bigger than any other method. a great way to finish after a pile of orgasms.
I never understood the appeal myself.
The vagina is such a wonderful thing. All else pales in comparison.
Just MHO of course.
Same. Here. !!!:D:D
Straight Male
Giving, it is ok but I prefer vaginal intercourse. But it is nice as a change up. Digital anal manipulation also seems to really enhance oral sex for some women. As long as the woman is into it, so am I. But I have no real preference for the ass.
Receiving, hasn’t really done anything for me. Every time we’ve tried I found it uncomfortable and distracting at best and painful in a bad way at worst. But I would be willing to give it another shot with the right partner.
This reads like the subject line of half the emails in my Spam folder.
sometimes it did seem like being in a vid.