Anal sex poll

The oral poll got me wondering.
For ladies: Have you ever had anal sex with your SO? Did you enjoy it/would you again, and did they enjoy it?

For men: Have you ever given, received or both? Would you do it again? Enjoy?

How much stigma does it carry where you are? Or is it perfectly acceptable?

My wife won’t let me, she says her anus is too small.

Goodness. She could have a least said your dick was too big :).

Well, she doesn’t know what she’s missing.

Which I guess qualifies as my answer to the OP.

Ditto. My wife’s is too small.

Based on my limited experience, with a gal with no previous experience in this matter, unless she really wants to do it and can relax, it’s not going to happen. Unless maybe the guy is really small? Did I say that?

Male here. Never done it, don’t have a burning desire to try it. If I met a woman who wanted it, I might be able to be talked into it, but I would never suggest it, as it’s not something that especially appeals to me.

No, a million times no. That particular orifice is strictly an EXIT on my body.

I have a job with a certain amount of butt-wiping and cleaning up of shit. I see more than enough shit and I have cleaned up enough butts and assholes for a lifetime. It’s an unsanitary area of the body, and nothing is going INTO it, unless it’s an enema or something like that.

Damn straight, yosemitebabe. That is a one way street right there. Exit ramp only. Never have never wish to.

It’s better to recieve than give.

Many, many women (and men) enjoy it - very, very much.

It’s not inherently wrong.

Any person who wants it can learn to relax and enjoy it.

My girlfriend of 3 years loves it, says she never had it before me, and demands it regularly.

I personally (as a pitcher, not a catcher) find it satisfies prurient and dominant interests early in a relationship, and then trickles down after the novelty wears off.

Doodoo is yucky. It’s the only time I still wear a condom.

Yes. Yes.

In Oklahoma? snort Anything not done behind closed doors, in the missionary position with the lights off between two married persons of the opposite sex is illegal.

However, in the independant nation of Arden which I rule, it’s perfectly acceptable.

I enjoy it.

My true love doesn’t dig it though. Which is OK. It’s not that important to me.

My sweetie enjoys an occasional finger in there, but as far as me putting Big Olaf in there, she says that’s too big for comfort.

The concept is exciting, and we sometimes watch videos of it. The reality of it, though, gets too close to the realm of pain. I don’t enjoy doing anything that brings the word “Ouch!”

Lady checking in: We do it sometime(probably once every couple of months), but being the type of person I am, before consenting to it originally (about 10 years ago), I did research, so I could be sure it wasn’t dangerous, etc. The one rule I’ve learned that’s served me well is, Lube, Lube, Lube. When you’ve applied way too much lube, apply more. Relax, and go for it!

Have recieved, liked it.
Have given, with aid of wondrous magical strap-on rubber appendage, and much lube. Partner liked it.
I’m not really sure of how much stigma the act carries. More to some than others, I suppose.

May I quote you on that?

Ick. No giving OR receiving for me, thanks. That’s just an unattractive and unsanitary part of the body.

LOL AlbertRose, of course :slight_smile:

That’s what you say.

Only done it twice (same girl incidentally), and I liked it (can’t tell you how she felt).

I actually like a li’l doo-doo down there. It gives it a slippery when wet feel.

Especially after a bout of diarrohea.

Either that or she was diseased, can’t quite remember.

Hwork, hwork, hwork!