Based on my limited experience, with a gal with no previous experience in this matter, unless she really wants to do it and can relax, it’s not going to happen. Unless maybe the guy is really small? Did I say that?
Male here. Never done it, don’t have a burning desire to try it. If I met a woman who wanted it, I might be able to be talked into it, but I would never suggest it, as it’s not something that especially appeals to me.
No, a million times no. That particular orifice is strictly an EXIT on my body.
I have a job with a certain amount of butt-wiping and cleaning up of shit. I see more than enough shit and I have cleaned up enough butts and assholes for a lifetime. It’s an unsanitary area of the body, and nothing is going INTO it, unless it’s an enema or something like that.
Many, many women (and men) enjoy it - very, very much.
It’s not inherently wrong.
Any person who wants it can learn to relax and enjoy it.
My girlfriend of 3 years loves it, says she never had it before me, and demands it regularly.
I personally (as a pitcher, not a catcher) find it satisfies prurient and dominant interests early in a relationship, and then trickles down after the novelty wears off.
Doodoo is yucky. It’s the only time I still wear a condom.
In Oklahoma? snort Anything not done behind closed doors, in the missionary position with the lights off between two married persons of the opposite sex is illegal.
However, in the independant nation of Arden which I rule, it’s perfectly acceptable.
My sweetie enjoys an occasional finger in there, but as far as me putting Big Olaf in there, she says that’s too big for comfort.
The concept is exciting, and we sometimes watch videos of it. The reality of it, though, gets too close to the realm of pain. I don’t enjoy doing anything that brings the word “Ouch!”
Lady checking in: We do it sometime(probably once every couple of months), but being the type of person I am, before consenting to it originally (about 10 years ago), I did research, so I could be sure it wasn’t dangerous, etc. The one rule I’ve learned that’s served me well is, Lube, Lube, Lube. When you’ve applied way too much lube, apply more. Relax, and go for it!
Have recieved, liked it.
Have given, with aid of wondrous magical strap-on rubber appendage, and much lube. Partner liked it.
I’m not really sure of how much stigma the act carries. More to some than others, I suppose.