Would it bother you to have sex with someone whose mind, but not body, is not the sex you prefer?

A strange question came to mind.

Suppose you are a straight guy. There’s an attractive woman who has the mind of man, and I mean that it a literal science-fiction sense. A man’s brain was physically removed, and put into the skull of this woman’s body, or perhaps a man’s “spirit” is possessing the woman’s body.

Would it bother you to have sex with this person?

Feel free to arrange this hypothetical to make the body the gender you prefer, but the mind the gender you do not wish to have sex with at all.

(and please don’t fight the hypothetical with “that’s impossible” or “spirits don’t exist” or anything like that)

Yes, it would bother. Since a woman is more than just a body to me, I want the whole woman.

Depends. Is the transplantee a friend of mine? Because that would be way weird.

I don’t think I could do it regardless. I don’t know, maybe if the transplantee were gay and I didn’t know him.

/chuckles

It’s possible but would be a deficit that would be overcome by sufficient lust. Would not be the case with the reverse (a woman’s mind transplanted into a man’s body.)

I would have absolutely no problem with this. Would not matter in the slightest.

If the mind is an asshole, then of course not, but that applies whether there is a brain swap or not.

ETA: I’m straight, and male

The more complicated scenario that got this question in my head had that factor.

I was still thinking about Palin and Bachmann from the other thread I started, and how great it would be if they campaigned together, then started passionately making out in front of the cameras. It would be both hot and also eliminate the possibility of either of them getting elected (or maybe get them elected in a landslide, now that I think about it some more).

Maybe two straight male ‘operatives’ would “possess” them to make them do this. In this scenario, you have two hetero male minds, perhaps even friends, making out with each other, but to them it feels like they are making out with a woman.

Yeah, I’m kinda bored at work today.

i think that’s the way it would go with me too.

Huh, I don’t think I would care. If it’s just sex then having the right body is enough. If it’s a relationship, well, I guess that depends on Frankenperson’s personality, doesn’t it?
It’s weird to think about it from the brain-switched person’s perspective though. I like being a girl, I wouldn’t want to cruise around in a dude’s body. What about ill-timed erections? Christ, that would be a nightmare. All the other men would be all practiced-up and I’d be the douchebag w/ the new body. Not cool man, not cool.

I dunno…Jadzia Dax was pretty hot–but Curzon is sorta-kinda in there somewhere. Might be too weird for me.

Think Heinlein touched on something similar to the OP’s hypothetical in Time Enough for Love, but I don’t remember much about it.

[Mod mod]Changed “who’s” to “whose” in title.[/Mod mod]

I need the mind of the partner to dig me in return. Assuming that the mind in the lady’s body is hetero, there’s no mutual “shazaam!”, so it ain’t gonna happen.

Yeah, but you could pee standing up.

I have known women (both gay and straight) whose personalities and minds I find extremely attractive.

But…I am a straight woman and the body and parts have to be male. In my youthier days I, uh, experimented…and found that having sex with a woman just didn’t do it for me. I used to have a pin an old girlfriend gave me that read “Hopelessely Hetero.” I like male parts, hairy chests, bigger muscles and all the typically testosterone-driven physical elements of men.

Wouldn’t bother me. I prefer androgynous partners anyway. I wouldn’t be opposed to having sex with a transman or transwoman either, with or without the genitals. I’m just not very picky. And I’m a female who doesn’t really do the girly thing, so it makes sense I suppose. I don’t care for traditional gender roles.

As long as s/he agrees not to begin any story with, “When I had balls” I’d be pretty cool with it.

You gotta think there is going to be, on average, a whole lot less drama. Plus, s/he’d have a ton of experience with the equipment.

Assuming it’s a gay male in that female’s body I wouldn’t have any issue as long as it’s a woman’s body and a mind that wants to have sex with me I’m all good.

I really can’t see any downside. I prefer girls who act more like dudes anyhow so if I can sit around talk about cars, sports and video games and then go have sex with a beautiful female body I’d be in heaven. Luckily my girlfriend digs sports and cars.

I would think that it would be just as big a turn off as when I was going to go hit on an emo guy by mistake. The second I know you’re male, the attraction vanishes.

Being a tomboy is cool. Being somewhat androgynous is cool. But being completely male? No. I can’t do it.

Wouldn’t make any difference to me at all.

I would not have sex with them.

I’m uncomfortable with the idea that someone’s body has been hijacked by another, and I don’t think I could get comfortable with it, even if they were assuring me that the body was otherwise uninhabited.

Otherwise, it feels very Frankensteiny to me. If I didn’t know and were told later, I don’t think I’d feel horrified, but if I knew in advance I think it would be very VERY hard for me to tune that out, and I’d really rather not being thinking about stuff like that while I’m having sex.