There’s hardcore deviant vibes…and there’s a more subtle deviant vibes. I’m sure you’ve been around people who give off some sort of vibe that they are a little less conventionally moral than the rest of the population.
What I notice…
-People who have tinted car windows, no matter how conventional the car.
-People who give half-sided smiles.
-Just about anyone I see up and awake 3am on a week day, and it doesn’t appear to be work related.
-This is a big one. Men who hit on me, when I look terrible. No make-up, hat on, sweats, etc.
Tinted car windows serve a purpose, they block the sun from super heating the interior of the car.
Being awake at 3AM isn’t something you’ll see someone for unless it is work related usually. They’re probably awake at that time (why are you awake at that time by the way?) because they do have a job that requires them be awake at three in the morning and they’re just not scheduled to work that morning. Or they’re scheduled for somewhere at about four or five in the morning and are making a quick run somewhere that’s open.
You can be, believe it or not, beautiful and attractive without make-up or “dress” clothes. Shocking I know! O_O
Tinted car windows serve a purpose, they block the sun from super heating the interior of the car.
Being awake at 3AM isn’t something you’ll see someone for unless it is work related usually. They’re probably awake at that time (why are you awake at that time by the way?) because they do have a job that requires them be awake at three in the morning and they’re just not scheduled to work that morning. Or they’re scheduled for somewhere at about four or five in the morning and are making a quick run somewhere that’s open.
You can be, believe it or not, beautiful and attractive without make-up or “dress” clothes. Shocking I know! O_O
What possible basis do you have for picking out one benign characteristic / behavior of a complete stranger and extrapolating that to “not conventionally moral” and “deviant?”
The one about guys who hit on girls when they look “terrible” reminds me of a blog post I read on Jezebel. The writer was really huffy about it, too. You’d think it would be an affirmation but she was really mad about it.
What you think of as “terrible”, a lot of men will think of as “cute” or “adorably disheveled”. Just think of all the action movies where the woman ends up sweaty and with ripped up clothes.
And why is finding you attractive while wearing a hat weird? :dubious:
A younger male (18-30) who is twitchy and whose eyes move around too much. Sure, he could be in a hurry, and have to get home to his wife and sick child, but my brain instantly says “meth head”.
Any person whose physical appearance and/or clothing is unusual for a setting. In my world, that includes something as bland as the overly muscular guy with tattoos wih a serious look, who is advertising “Hey, I just got out of prison and I’m looking to start a fight”, or the guy who is wearing sunglasses and Raiders team paraphernalia at night. He’s advertising “I’m thinking about robbing this Taco Bell”. And yes, in my mind, Vin Diesel is going to start a fight AND rob the Taco Bell…
Anyone with a neck, face, or head tattoo in general.
People who drive cars with way too much money spent on the suspension, either to lower it (gang member) or raise it (gun toting red-neck).
Diamonds02, if you think keeping something other than banker’s hours is a sign of deviance, you’re going to miss out on a lot of really interesting people.
I never, EVER, do an American-style “expose the gnashers” tooth-smile. I find they look insincere and forced. So, in the end, if I find something very funny, you’ll probably get a giggle and a smile with both sides of the mouth raised from me. Less funny, you’ll get one side.