I haven't had sex in three years

And I’m only 26.

Lack of sex has made me lose my drive or desire to do anything in life. Hey, the whole meaning is to procreate and have children, but if no girl ever wants to do that with me regardless of what I do, then why bother?

They say “it happens when you stop trying,” but that’s clearly bullshit.

Have you carefully considered the validity of your premises?

I’m not even sure what you mean by that.

10 years and counting.

Your premise:

It’s validity is being questioned. Can has reconsideration?

Is the purpose of life to procreate? Is the biological imperative to pass on one’s genes the sole or most important aspect of being human and even if so, does it have to be that for an individual? Does a lack of children render a person’s other accomplishments irrelevant?
If you decide that a sexual relationship and children is what you would find most fulfilling in your life, what can you do to make that happen?
edit: the only thing life owes us is a death. Everything else is a bonus.

Well it certainly matters to me. And If I knew what to do to make it happen, I would have done it by now.

Cart … Horse ??

A. Why not quitcherbitchin and take matters into your own hands.

B. There are enough orphans in the world. We dont need more progeny. Adopt some if you feel compelled to be a father. Or get a dog.

Maybe you aren’t getting any because you’re such a downer. I wouldn’t recommend approaching women with that whole procreation thing.

A. Like I haven’t already tried.

B. Well I certainly can’t raise a kid alone…

I don’t know about you, but I’ve had great success going up to women in bars and telling them that my life has no meaning if I cannot make them great with child.

Do you honestly think I’m dumb enough to say that shit to someone in a bar?

At this point, what have you got to lose?

nm

Do you have a friend who might be able to shed some light on what part of your MO is cockblocking you?

Yes. It’s never any help.

Have you tried the ‘Wanna fuck?’ approach. It seems to work for some people.

What would be help?

Jesse jesse jesse …

Have you heard of Negaholics Anonymous?