What if an unknown sibling from one of your parents’ past relationships gives you a call or shows up at your doorstep. Lets say that the person has proof of his or her claim, and isn’t an axe murderer or anything. How do you react toward this person, and why*? Invite the person into your life? Tell them never to contact you again, and take steps to make sure that they won’t get a cut of the family inheritance? Something in-between?
There was a similar question directed at fathers awhile back, but I’m interested in hearing what a sibling’s reaction would be. If anyone has actually been in a similar situation, please feel free to share your story.
other questions:
Does it matter how this person is related to you (father’s child vs. mother’s child or full sibling)? Would your answer change based on whose DNA you two share?
Do you think that your answer would change based on your current siblings? (Would you think some variation on, “I all ready have a brother, and don’t need another” or “Well I’m an only child, so having a sister would be nice” or even “I hate all of my other siblings, so thanks but no thanks.”
*I’m sure that most people will say that they would welcome the person with open arms (assuming that anyone decides to post:),) but I’m very interested in hearing the reasons that a person unwilling to let the sibling into his/her life might have.