17 January, 2001 - In Memory

No words I can offer except to say I’m sorry, hon.

{{{{tater}}}}

hugs That’s gotta be rough. :frowning:

I won’t say I know how you feel, because I don’t and never will. And I won’t add anything to that which has already been said because it’s been said with love and compassion, much more eloquently than I could have.

Except for this:

Try to think not so much of your loss but of the wonderful times you’ve shared together during your pregnancies. With any luck, that kind of miracle will happen again.

We. Need. A. Crying. Emoticon.

I’ll try to get PD to post to this thread if I can - PD1 was/is a miscarriage. I’m PD2.

{{{Tracy}}} You are a very brave and strong woman. We all want to ease your pain.

(((((((((((Tracy)))))))))))

Nothing profound to add, really – I just wanted to pass along a cyberhug. (I wish they were as effective as actual ones.) I can’t even imagine what you’ve gone through, but I do know that, in spite of it all, you’re an amazing, beautiful, incredibly brave person. Tinytot is truly blessed to be able to call you mom.

Much love,
Jessica

Without going into too much detail, allow me to say that I know exactly where you’re coming from tater.

You are not in the least odd for thinking about this and having feelings concerning it. My heart goes out to you.

Aw, Tater, I’m so sorry. :frowning:

{{{{{tatertot}}}}}

TaterTot, I know I’m new here but let me add one thought: You may very well get a chance to meet your two children in the afterlife (if you beleive in that sort of thing.)

{{{{{{tatertot}}}}}}

And what others may not know, even as you were dealing with your own pain, you offered your sympathies, help, and a shoulder to cry on to Honesty and myself when she had a miscarriage later that same summer. We wish you all the best.

{{{Tracy}}}…

I will keep you in my prayers, for healing and peace of mind. Feel free to E-mail me, if you wish.

For what it’s worth, your little ones will live in your heart, and rest assured they are secure in the arms of the Lord, for no souls so cherished and loved can be anywhere else.

{{{{{{{{{{{Tracy & Mr. Tatertot}}}}}}}}}}}}
Larry

I’m terribly sorry about your loss. {{{Tracy}}}

tatie I’m so glad you posted because you gave me a second chance to express my condolences. I’m so sorry about your miscarriages. I know how hard they have been on you and your family. I’m praying for you.

Love, Canthearya

tatertot, so sorry for your loss. For what it’s worth, my wife (and I to some degree) had three miscarriages over the course of two years, but had two healthy happy children after. It was pretty tough; after the first loss, everybody tells you that medically it’s no big deal, and you’re surprised to find out how many people have had them. But after two they start running all kinds of tests and you really start to wonder. After three you feel like this just won’t happen. It’s very sad and frustrating. Plus, you’re on pins and needles for each pregnancy, wondering each day if this one’ll stick. I still remember the proposed birthday of the first.

But as I say, we were able to have two great children afterwards; I hope that offers you some hope.

((((Tracy))))

What more can I say?

LL

I’ve been where you’re at, tatertot. I’ve had a miscarriage, too.

All I can add is that while the pain may never completely go away, someday it will get less bad.

(((((tracy)))))

{{{{{Tracytot}}}}}

I’m sorry. So many of us have – sadly – shared the same heartbreak. I know that it’s difficult to understand unless one has been through it. Mine was at 16 weeks. I was pretty drugged up at the time, but the image I carry with me is that of my baby boy in a jar. I’ve been blessed with two wonderful sons since that horrible day, so I know that it does get easier. I’m sending all my best vibes for a healthy pregnancy or two in the future. God bless.