About a year and a half I started losing my pep and vigour…and then I met a wonderful woman and everything got better…until I noticed the calendar was about to turn over that magic number, and then suddenly everything went to pot. I know it was all psychological and I am doing better now that I am one week into the forties…and I found that I was able to have sex as often as an old fart of forty as I was as a young buck of thirty nine…(god I sound like I’m about eighty don’t I???
Mr. Metabolism skidded to a halt when I was in my late 30s. I’m 46 now, and I feel as good as I used to, but it’s a constant struggle to keep my weight down–hell, just to stay even. I’m more breakable than I used to be, and more prone to aches and pains, but the only thing that really bothers me about my 40s is the drying up of my professional opportunities.
Actually, I’ve always heard that memory was the second thing to go. I forget what’s first.
I’m 67 and what I notice most is that my stamina started fading around 60 and scratches and bruises take longer to heal. I exercise at the gym four or five days a week and try to eat a low fat, high fiber diet so I have stayed in pretty good shape.
Mentally, I hit the crisis point at my 38th birthday, at which point I realized that I could no longer say I was in my “mid 30’s” and had to face rapidly approaching 40.
My body also started to fall apart at the same age, my hip getting so bad that I couldn’t do the black belt level TKD stuff anymore (Jump and spin off my left hip? Are you freaking nuts???).
I’ve never liked loud places just because conversation is pointless beyond about 2’. As I get older, I have less tolerance for it.
Ummm, yes. I used to be a senior editor; I’m now a copy editor. And after this job ends there is no way I’m going to get another magazine postion, at my age.
I already feel like an 80 year old woman and I’m not quite 30. My neck and back are often sore and if I stand too long my back seizes up, and my legs feel “heavy” and swollen. And when I’m tired my heart pounds like crazy. I’m going to be a mess at 40, I’m afraid.
On the plus side, I’m often mistaken for being almost a decade younger than I am. As long as they don’t see me hunched over nursing my aching back, on the outside I should be okay for a while yet.
"On the plus side, I’m often mistaken for being almost a decade younger than I am. As long as they don’t see me hunched over nursing my aching back, on the outside I should be okay for a while yet. "
See, Jane, that happens to me but I’m afraid … what will happen if I wake up one day and all of a sudden they both catch up to each other (my outside and inside) ?? O … M … G that could be preeeetttttty scary.