<font face=‘Trebuchet MS’>**I see that you are still bitching, BYZ. You must have a pix posted somewhere that one can determine if your size is as big as your mouth.
Point here: I never INSISTED that mine was is the ONLY way. Please correct me if I am wrong by showing me one example. True, I have no use for fat folks, but I made it clear that such was my opinion only and not necessarily anyone else’s. It was not brought up in my last OP concerning what a man sees in a woman when making love. At least, not until you and a few others dumped it in there. I’m not alone in that opinion concerning ‘plumpers’ either, or else would not have drawn the massive amount of hateful fire back. Those who have experienced negative comments concerning their size are often the first to respond to any perceived slander.
Now, back to the subject. Below is an excerpt from the post. Just where in it do I state that this is the only way? Did I not point out that this was only PART of what a man observes and feels? So, after stating that, why was I attacked?
<font color=“Red”>THIS IS ONLY FROM THE MAN’S POINT OF VIEW AND DOES NOT INCLUDE WHAT HE WOULD BE DOING FOR HIS PARTNER. IT IS ASSUMED THAT IF HE IS THIS PERCEPTIVE, THEN HE WOULD BE SEEING TO HIS PARTNERS NEEDS.</font color"Red"> (GOT IT? THIS IS NOT SELFISH, NOT EGOCENTRIC AND SO ON. THIS IS JUST ONE PART OF A VIEW.)
Good guys, and not those just interested in dumping their load as fast as possible, watch for many things in their partner. (NOTICE, I SAID WATCH, WHICH INDICATES THAT HE IS PAYING ATTENTION TO ALL OF HIS LADY.) Especially the face, if they are on the bottom. They’ll notice if the woman is slightly smiling, if her eyes are closed and how her hair falls around her face, even if the hair is back lit by some soft room lighting. "Big or puffy’ hair can hang around a woman’s face like an ethereal halo, shining, sparkling and accenting her looks tremendously. (The woman who takes extra time to do her hair before sex, in my book, is a real PLUS!)
Ok. So what was offensive about that? If your man doesn’t do that automatically in the sexual act, then you probably are screwing a stone. Your hostilities came out because of my fat comment and not what was in this post.
A man notices the scent and smell of a woman, her hair wash, her perfume and even the soap she used to bath with. A good perfume can linger in his hindbrain long after the act is over. (The scent of herbal essence green apples shampoo STILL reminds me of a girl I knew over 20 years ago.)
So, you mean to tell me that none of you mouthy women have any ex-boyfriends out there who remember your perfume as well as yourself long, long after an intimate encounter? You do not recall how a special man wore some fragrance you recall long afterwards, especially if you happen to smell it later on?
If not, then I should be the one who pities you. Now, you all jumped on the attack by stating that I said this was the ONLY way and accused me of being selfish by not considering the other aspects of the person, but did I not state that it was not the ONLY way and did I not point out to you that I was describing only ONE of many aspects of making love?
Or did your little, hot, maniacal brains choose to ignore those simple facts?
Gee, I wonder how many of you puritans out there secretly have met a person of a body form, size, color, nationality or creed which YOU cannot stand but don’t admitt to it? If so, then your attack of me is unjustified.
BYZ: If your weight did not turn me off towards you, the filthy, sarcastic mouth you actually eat with, would have. Anyone who can glibly come up with such insults and slander without pause and has obviously had much practice with them is not what I would consider a nice person. When you take so much obvious joy in ridiculing another, that indicates an insecure and potentially hostile personality. Please, by all means enjoy your misery.
JILL: Any form of perceived defense of any of my posts by you will be met with hostility, suspicion and derivement.
Mark
“Think of it as Evolution in action.”