Jack is a closeted gay man. He marries Jill. Jill is Jack’s Beard. Jack is Jill’s ________ ?
Jenny is a closeted gay woman. She marries Jeff. Jeff is Jenny’s _______? Jenny is Jeff’s _______ ?
When the pandemic is over, I’m thinking Mrs. Homie and I might like to take in a drag performance. I know that businesses that cater to the LGBTQ community are glad to have support, but at the same time, I assume that queer folks want safe spaces where they can be around their own community without “outsiders” (for lack of a better choice of words). So is it OK for straights to patronize drag shows just because? Or should we stay away and leave the seats for members of the community?