Mary, you are wasting time with occasional dates that don’t work out. You need to start with a large group.
Why does it matter if your friend thinks it’s creepy? Clearly, everyone has different tastes when it comes to the specifics of approaches to dating and hooking up. If you’re fine with it, go with it.
EDIT: I didn’t read the whole thread when I posted this.
large group?
Now what’s your opinion after reading my update>?
Do you swallow?
That’s pretty rude.
I asked him what we are doing and he just said "we will figure it out"I guess we shall see,I am nervous
Its official, we are meeting up on Monday 
Sorry, Mary, but I think you missed my point.
Given the context, I fail to see how. She’s posting on this messageboard about the guy who drove up to her while she was out running and gave her his number and how she’s looking forward to the random sex she’s planning on having with him.
I wouldnt contact him if u could.
But he didnt tell you what he has planned? Then how will you know what to wear?
First we do the hot tub, then we do the sauna.
The squid lives in the hot tub, obviously, but the goat isn’t always keen to jump in. At least not until after a few drinks. Besides, wet goat smells funny.
Or if you prefer it the other way around, that’s cool, too. We’ll all mingle. It’ll be fine.
Feel free to join in!
NO,he just said we will figure it out.I am going to suggest a movie
A movie?! That’s gotta be one of the worst first date ideas out there. Two strangers sitting next to each other in the dark, not saying anything…why?
Well obviously so you can buy a big bucket of popcorn, drill a hole in the bottom, then put it in your lap. When the popcorn gets low enough your date reaches in and finds the surprise, and then it’s just a fun time all-around.
I actually like movie dates. A movie is a shared experience that tunes the emotions of the couple to the same channel. Then later, you can talk about the movie. If you both liked it, you have common ground.
Marylnshephards, what kinds of movies do you like? Are there any new Transformers sequels in theaters at the moment? Personally, I find that there is nothing better than watching giant robots mindlessly beat the crap out of each other for a couple of hours straight to get into the mood for some sweet romancing.
I like comedy, Action and Drama.The reason why i am suggesting a movie is because we both don’t live too far from the movie theater. He wants to meet when gets off work after 6pm.
Maybe after a movie we can go to cofee shop and talk.I am nervous though, Its been a while since I have been on date
And not necessarily in that order 
^ Winner Of The Thread