Dirty talking where the “sexy” language involves words like “slut”, “whore”, or anything else insulting/objectifying is flat out. In high school I was sort of kind of seeing a guy who tried to get raunchy on the phone, which was fine until he got to the part about me being a “dirty little whore” who wanted him to xyz. :dubious:
One woman I was dating a few years back was very into the idea of putting her finger in my butt. She was adamant that other men she had been with had really, really loved it. Maybe its true and they all found it utterly fantastic. But none for me thanks. Nope. Nuh-uh. Sorry. Not gonna happen.
Anal, S&M, bondage, group sex or watching my wife with some huge black man.
Unfortunately, those things seem to be the most popular acts in porn, these days, and it’s getting really difficult to find any without them.
The whole “talk dirty” stuff. Don’t like to hear it, and can’t do it with out feeling artificial. I am also not into “spanking”- yrs ago I had a GF that was into it. I tried it, and again felt artificial+ nervous about actually hurting her.
FML
Intercourse feels good, but it won’t get me off–but I think that’s pretty common in women.
Also don’t like cunnilingus…it just feels grody to me. I’m not sure if the fact that my first lover was so grossed out by it he could almost never bring himself to do it (and even told me that he had once been so creeped out, he threw up because of it) has something to do with that hang up.
Missionary position. I will do it but dislike it. It is boring, bland and I can’t get pleasure in that way. Fortunately, very rarely have I had to do it more than a couple of times with a partner. Usually they don’t mind the other positions.
Not everyone likes what you like, and conversely, not everyone dislikes what you dislike. That’s all I’m going to say, considering the way TMI I’ve gone into about my sexual proclivities here over the years.
Rimming - pretty common in the gay world, but it completely squicks me out (there’s always the obligatory rimming scene in gay porn and 99% of the time I skip past it). There is no fucking way in hell I’m putting my tongue in someone else’s bum hole. Had it done to me and it’s quite nice, but they’re straight into the bathroom for a dose of mouthwash if they want me to kiss them afterwards.
I thought of another one! That thing with the collander, the toaster (not plugged in, that would be sick!) and the clown nose. I know that most people enjoy that act, but it just squiffs me out… plus, what if the handle of the colander breaks off, just as the clown nose comes “into play”? What then, huh?
Put me down as a prude if you like, and by no means do I wish to imply I am judging others, but sheesh!
FML
If you use a spatula instead, it’s way more fun.
And with these new silicon spatulas, safe at high temperatures!
Spanking - a boyfriend used to give me a thwack across the cheeks to let me know he was just … on … the … edge.
Absolute passion killer. 60 to 0 in .001 seconds. Guaranteed that at least one of us would not reach orgasm - well, *another *orgasm 
And that wasn’t even the reason we broke up!
Oh, and spatula? Surely you mean the egg whisk.
Egg whisk? Really, it’s true what they say–it takes all kinds to make a world. shudder
Yup. And I have no interest in a three way or having anyone watch/spotlights or mirrors/home videos/web cams. I’d rather do than perform, if you follow me.
But that’s about it. Unless you come at me wearing a diaper. Buh-bye!
You know, this thread has made me realize that I apparently have a much narrower definition of common sex acts than other people do.
Not sure it fits “common,” but we tried the peeing on each other and were completely indifferent to it.
Everything else mentioned above we enjoy, at least from time to time. Threesomes were a surprise; for us it was fun and drama free, but at the same time wasn’t so unbelievably great that we feel we are missing something if we don’t do it again or frequently.
i don’t like being called a slut or a whore. I don’t mind being a “naughty girl” once in a while - but I am not in to degradation.
I enjoy anal as a change of scene, and I enjoy some light bondage, but I find I’m not as turned on by the extreme stuff that once fascinated me.
I like to say that before I was really turned on by sex, but now I’m way more in to making love. Probably because I finally met someone I make love with.
Beware! I was once involved with a girl like this, and she turned out to be a lesbian. She left me for my best friend, who was female. Turned out it only tickled when men did it.
My contribution is the cowgirl position. Does nothing for me. That and dirty talk. It’s a big turnoff AFAIC. I also agree with Illuminatiprimus about rimming. The whole concept is disgusting to me and I hope to never participate in it or have to watch it.
QFT. As for receiving oral sex, it’s only rarely ever gotten me off.
FTR, the prostate gland (which is within finger reach of the anal entry) has been described as “the male G-spot”. My ass is a one-way street, personally, but I at least understand why so many men like it.
I hope you realize that’s not a “common sex act”. It’s way less common than bondage, which, IIRC, you are also repulsed by. Why is the diaper thing relevant? I’m curious. (FTR, the whole diaper thing is a fetish too far, if you ask me. I don’t have a problem with other people doing it, but if they want to do it with me, they’ve got another thing coming.)
That’s true for me too. But I still like it quite a bit. Far from indifferent.
You can’t say that HERE! It’s sex, baby, all night and all day–no need to bring commitment, affection, trust and respect into the mix… 
Hostile Dialect–I know it’s not common*, but once I typed I was good to go for anything else, I thought I had better mention that I wasn’t really good to go for “anything else”–and diapers popped into my head. A man in a diaper would have me laughing so hard, I’d lose any desire for sex. Blame Dan Savage’s column for the notion (which I’ve been reading lately). What does my dislike of bondage have to do with anything?–add it to the list then along with animals, kitchen appliances, produce and smaller automobile parts.**
- for all we know, it’s more common than we think. I don’t want to know how common it is.
**joke, much like the diaper comment, but I thought I had better stave off any more delving into my predilections.