Liberal, I did not expect this thread to turn to religion, but certain brain injuries do make people find religion or lose religion. How does this reconcile to your position that there is no choice in having faith?
Are there not many people each year who seek to discover God through spiritual means and reading? Are there not also many people who grow up in a faith, hold the faith but then as they get older start to question the hundreds of nagging little inconsistencies and loose their faith along the way.
I agree that having faith is far from a choice like picking which brand of cereal to buy. However, I do not see it as any less of a choice for many people than what sports team to root for.
I was indoctrinated into a Roman Catholic, Yankee and NY Giants fan family. I left the RCC due to questions about the church that led to question about God himself. I gladly stood by my Yanks and I suffered through a childhood of horrible play by the Giants. I was then rewarded in the eighties. I have a friend that grew up in very similar circumstance and also left the church, chose to root for the RedSox and Cowboys as some form of protest against his pop. (And all reasonable logic and decency )
I then have a friend that left the RCC, became a loud and obnoxious atheist similar to **PRR ** and then found new faith with the Unitarians.
These all sound a lot like choices to me, many different choices for different reasons.
And that gets to the heart of it. The semantic distinction is whether you interpret ‘believe’ in an intellectual sense, as in ‘ok, I buy that’, or whether you think of it in the realm of feeling.
People who are saying it is a ‘choice’ to believe mean that people can choose from the intellectual options and decide that the arguments for faith are plausible. That is not the same as feeling the faith in your soul.
I had a pal I hung around with for a while. To all comers, we were buds. We did stuff together, called each other (sometimes daily) and commisserated or cheered each other when the occasion arose. However I never did grow fond of her in any way and when we fell away from our previous habits of spending time together, I felt no loss. There are other people I’ve met and felt fondness for and warmth towards that continue to this day whether or not we are in contact. You can’t create that. Similarly, you can’t manufacture faith that originates in the heart (metaphorically, you pickers of nits).
Well, I don’t think I’ve been having any fun at your expense, and neither have I crafted any limericks. Nor do I think what you’re doing is irrelevant. And really, most people here are having fun at your expense. Most people here are debating the ethics of your behavior.
I know this was a typo, but actually it’s true. I would guess 51+% are having fun at Liberal’s expense, and at the same time 51+% are debating the ethics of your behavior. The sets are not exclusive.
Well, you think it’s an important distinction, and Lemur866 thinks they are not mutually exclusive. I’ve often found that, when someone makes a claim about “most people” in a thread, it just means “people who agree with me”. Unless your and Bryan’s posts (as of this writing) count as 98 different people. And if so, I get to count myself and Quiddity as at least 62.
As to the ethics of our behavior. We are two (three, if you count Tris) consenting adults who entered a voluntary transaction upon our own volition. If that bothers you, then I suggest you look at your own life. I bet you’ll find plenty there to keep you busy.
I’ve already done that, Liberal, as if your nonsensical proposition would prove anything. Back in my late teens, early twenties, I was drawn into a couple of different Christian groups. I chose to join them - I read, studied, prayed, the whole nine yards. Then I chose to leave them.
Because you didn’t believe, right? So you couldn’t make yourself believe?
I’ve heard this “choosing to believe” stuff many times, but I do believe this is the first time I’ve heard it from a nonreligious person (if you are religious, I apologize for the misunderstanding).
What Exit?, I can’t refer you to my posting history because I rarely get involved in religious threads. (And I’m not sure why I picked this one to discuss it.) I’m mostly atheist, with the occasional day when I wake up agnostic, but a cup of coffee and a cigarette usually sets me right.
Agreed. I apologize for not making myself more clear. It’s just my perspective, I guess. Faith is something my intellect (thankfully) struggles against. But I just love Him. I really can’t help it.