Gravy, giblets or not - as long as I can’t see them or don’t know what they are, it doesn’t matter to me whether there are giblets or not.
Cranberry sauce, jellied or whole berry - whole berry. The jellied stuff freaks me out. My mom makes a fantastic cranberry chutney with pecans, oranges and spice.
Stuffing, oysters or not, inside the bird or outside - no oysters, outside the turkey (it never seems to get cooked fully unless you cook the turkey to within an inch of its life), with sausage, sage and cornbread.
Turkey, roasted or deep fried - roasted. I’ve had fried turkey once and it was just too messy for the taste, which wasn’t much different from roasted only it had more oil. Ick.
Potatoes, candied sweet, white mashed, or hash brown casserole - I like regular sweet potatoes best without making them candied, maybe with some marshmallows on top. White mashed are good, too, especially if there’s a ton of garlic.
No giblets-from a box with a few drippings spices dumped in.
Whole berry homemade jellied. It’s not that hard-there’s some chemical in the berries that jellies it naturally if you do it right. I use Epicurious’s triple cranberry recipe and it jellies properly every year.
Stuffing, no oysters, outside the bird because we brine. Stovetop. Helps my parents feel properly American
Turkey, roasted
Potatoes, candied sweet with marshmallows and white mashed
Whole berry. My mom makes a really great cranberry sauce with apples in it.
No oysters in the dressing (why would you?), outside the bird. Granted, I usually don’t eat the stuffing because it has too many onions in it.
Roasted. I’ve never had fried. Smoked is good, though.
I like all potatoes. I could not choose between mashed with gravy and my sweet potato souffle (which I make—with real sweet potatoes of course—and bring every year).
My recipe replaces the giblets with hard-boiled eggs.
2. Cranberry sauce, jellied or whole berry
We have both. This promotes familial harmony.
3. Stuffing, oysters or not, inside the bird or outside
Oysters in stuffing? I might be from the South, but no thanks. Outside the bird for us. Replace the oysters with sausage and then you will be getting close.
4. Turkey, roasted or deep fried
We always roast one and smoke the other. Old Smokey is being caressed by wafts of hickory goodness as I type.
5. Potatoes, candied sweet, white mashed, or hash brown casserole
We have both mashed and candied sweet with marshmallows on top.
Of course, none of this would matter without the deviled eggs.
I’m guessing the hash brown casserole is some variation of frozen hash browns (the cubed kind) mixed with canned cream of something soup, sour cream, and shredded cheddar cheese.
I’m very curious about this giblet/hard boiled egg thing. Is this a regional variation? I’d never heard of it before reading it here.