Shirley UJ,
I am an ADDult.
I was diagnosed at age 15. Essentially, my parents saw a strange pattern with me. I would do great in school the first few weeks then end up failing classes etc. Looking back through my elementary school grades there was always “Very intelligent but doesn’t complete her work” “stares out the window a lot” and similar comments.
After a complete days testing with a psychiatrist and about 3 counseling sessions, my doctor determined my ADD without the H.
Unlike GaWd’s thinking, Ritalin, in a true ADD/ADHD patient does not lead to stimulant abuse. When I was on my Ritalin I never felt different. In fact, during my experimentation of recreational drugs stimulants like cocaine and speed didn’t affect me like they did my friends.
Driven to Distraction is a great book. I highly recommend it for those that suspect they have it or a loved one does.
Here are some common things with ADD people:
Intelligent, does well below average in standard academic settings.
Disorganization
Forgetful
A risk taker or spontaneous
One or both parents have ADD
Has many unfinished projects
Can hyperfocus --either doesn’t know you exist or get very upset if you interupt during an intense and engaging activity the ADDer is involved in.
Those are common but don’t apply to all ADDers.
I do agree that ADD is overly “diagnosed” today. Often a teacher will mention it and a General Practioner will simply prescribe Ritalin, Adderall etc. In my years of research and talking to others about ADD, I have come to the conclusion that a pyschiatrist along with the person’s main doctor should be involved.
Forms of bi-polar can mimic ADHD and vice versa which is why it is important that a doc of the brain should be involved. Also, as SingleDad mentioned, ADD can accompany other learning disabilities so a patient should have a thorough eval before treatment begins.