The thread I started was a legitimate one, but I can understand the question about the masturbation fantasies being too much.
By ‘more appropriate behavior’, you mean
a.) Never asking any questions which involve sex or any other topic that Big Brother decides doesn’t exist
b.) Never throwing out controversial ideas for consideration, because doing so isn’t politically correct; remember Lawrence Summers, president of Harvard, and how he was ostracized for suggesting for consideration that women may inherently be less able at science than men? That’s the kind of ship (on second thought, replace the ‘p’ with a ‘t’) that you Mods run here.
And in the end, you want to close my thread almost entirely because it was me asking, and you were biased. If a long-standing and beloved poster had asked that question, you’d let it slide. Hey, the Mods are just humans after all. But you’re unprofessionalism really sucks, and it happens all the time.
The Moderators here are biased, overbearing, and often condescending group. Of course, there’s nothing we can do about it, except repeat this phrase:
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They are never going to be able to spell out rules of what is OK to post and what isn’t OK.
They make judgement calls on threads. Just because you don’t always agree with the judgements doesn’t mean they are overbearing, biased or condescending.
Incorrect. This has been a moderator judgement call for years now. Search on “elevate the tone”, IIRC, for just some examples. You’re just being pointed out in that ATMB board because you’re the person who posted the thread in question.
Dude. You just came back from suspension and you’ve already started over fifteen threads. You’re over using a resource that we all have to share. How about shutting the fuck up for a little while?
When a self-professed twenty year old male virgin writes an OP that solicits responses from women about an intimate subject, I think that the mods can be forgiven for suspecting that prurience just might have been the motive, rather than a selfless quest for truth.
What he said. Shitting out every thread idea that pops into your head is NOT the way to go around here. You start more threads in one day than most folks around here start in a month. Not only that, but the staff is kind enough to let you come back, and you’re already complaining about them? Not. Smart.
Even though I’m fairly open about sex, there is something rather inappropriate about a 20 year old man asking the women of this board what sexual fantasies they use while masturbating, hijacking his own thread about women’s thoughts on anal sex.
If the ladies feel like talking about it, I’m not going to stop them, but YOU sure as hell shouldn’t be the one requesting it.
I thought your original thread was more than likely just some prospecting for stroke material. The main reason I popped into this thread, though, is that I have a morbid fascination with “you don’t have what it takes to be one of us” pile-ons. They are most common, but by no means limited to, threads involving new member/moderator conflict. I can’t take my eyes off of it when my fellow members suddenly turn into Biff and Muffy berating a pledge.
Some venues are appropriate for questions like this and some, like the SDMB, simply aren’t. Posting it here is like driving around with a Honk if you like to buttfuck sticker on your car.
What am I missing here? The thread linked by the OP was started by someone named “Plan B” and isn’t locked. The thread referenced in that OP, while indeed started by andrewt85, isn’t locked either. So, what the fuck are we complaining about here? I need to know because I’ve got a whole shithouse fulla gripes stored up. If I can unload one of them here, I’d like to do so. Lots of them are getting kinda stale.