A little back story: For about three years I’ve been petitioning my boss to allow me to put together a proposal for senior management to start up a Corporate Social Responsibility committee, policy, programs, etc., etc. I’ve had a lot of pushback from a lot of people over the years, but finally, FINALLY got the go ahead last fall.
Around that time I heard through the grapevine that our Corporate Affairs department was thinking of doing something similar (great communication here, eh?) so I approached them and suggested we work together, as I had a lot of research done already and they were just starting out. It could be a joint effort between our two departments (I’m in Environment).
So last fall we began working on a big proposal for this project. Got a very rough draft together and had a few meetings. At the end of October, the members from CA were suddenly really busy with whatever had come up, so I volunteered to complete the proposal to a final draft, including a schedule and milestones, etc., etc. A proper, senior level proposal, which I had never done before, but I put my heart into and it came out well.
I sent this to them in November and we planned on meeting with senior management to get final approval at the beginning of December.
And the meeting got postponed until January. Fine, we’re starting to fall behind the schedule, but ok.
Postponed again. And again, and again. I’d email every two weeks or so asking for an update. “We’re finishing up year end, and then we’re ready to go.” Fair enough. Again I email, “Just about done, looks like a go ahead at the end of this week, we’ll email.” That was mid-February.
So now, I’ve emailed both of them at the beginning of this week asking for an update. It’s been two days, I know they’re both here, and I haven’t received a response. I am starting to worry.
Do I:
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Give it another couple of days.
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Confront them in person (I hate doing it, but sometimes I guess I have to put my big girl panties on).
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Email my boss and ask her to intervene (she has a communication problem too - she never gets back to me).
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Email their boss and ask for an update (no blame laying, obviously, just a friendly email).
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Let it go because it’s obviously either not going through, or they’ve taken my hard work and are continuing on their own.
I’m a bit heartbroken about this, to be honest. I’ve wanted this for years, and I thought I finally got it, and now it feels like it’s being taken away.