Hmm. Considering his biological mother was the woman he considered his older sister, maybe it was a stealth insult for BOTH her siblings! 
Hei, just so everyone doesn’t get confused, those posts where I contemplate banging some whoever I met off the net are from some months ago. My current GF actually knows about it, and we weren’t a couple back then.
To answer a few things: We never intended to tell her mother she had an abortion, her sister overheard a conversation and went squilling to her… with the added false details of the forced abortion by my parents, apparently.
Her stepfather is whacko, he always was, that’s the reason she was staying with me in the first place. I believe he tried to… what’s the word… rape her when she was 13. I think it has something to do with those videotapes. I’m confused there, why would he want to release something that’s supposed to be so prejudicial to him… Anyway.
She doesn’t want her life back, but she does want a new one, and things are shaky at best. Other than me, she has nothing (STOP WITH THE JOKES HERE OK? I KNOW IT’S TEMPTING). Frankly my maturity might not be much, but it could be worse. I’m concerned that, if this relationship doesn’t go well, she’ll have nowehere to land. She’s concerned too. I mean we love each other, but it seems the decision for us to stay together is being forced, I can see it and she can see it and that’s worrysome.
And then there’s the threats…
This thread gets odder and odder. Now you’re channelling Norm Macdonald.