I have lived in New York, and in Indiana. In New York, having reason to think someone is of the age of consent when they are not, is not a defense to statutory rape. In Indiana, it is.
I’m not sure what I think; possibly, that it isn’t enough for an underage person (not just girl) to appear to be older, but there must be a good reason to think that, like meeting her in a bar. If a fifteen-year-old has a really convincing ID, and can get past the doorman, and the waitress, who have a lot at stake, then first, one can say she objectively does appear older, and second, it is bright and clear that she deceived.
I know some people get their feathers ruffled about victim-blaming, but I’m not saying she shouldn’t have been out that late, or wearing that skirt, and I am definitely not saying that deceit about age is a defense to forcible rape-- only statutory rape.
And sometimes, you can blame the victim a little. Go into the 7-11, and leave your car unlocked and running, and it got stolen, and you insurance doesn’t want to cover your loss? Well, your bad decision did contribute to the loss. Maybe a judge should rule that there was partial contributory negligence, and you should get 50%, but I get the insurance company’s point.
I’m really glad it’s not up to me, because I’m not sure where to draw the line. I’m not sure that it’s enough for the victim the have stated that she (or he) is of age-- maybe it should require some objective measure. If there’s a jury trial, the jury can see for itself whether the victim looks 16, or 18, but it’s certainly helpful if the victim, say, bought cigarettes the same week without getting carded, or showed a fake ID at some point.
I dunno. Is there a poll?