Admissions? Agent Bixby. We've got a live one. "Too stupid for college!"

I’m an RA (resident advisor) in a large university. Last night at 2:30 AM, I was sound asleep when I heard pounding on my door. I’m thinking to myself, “oh shit, someone’s in trouble.” Not really, we’ve got electronic door keys and someone has just locked themselves out of their room. Well crap, we haven’t been trained to produce spare keys for the electronic locks yet (stupid housing!). I groggily fumble my way up to the office and fuck around with the system for five minutes. Fortunately, producing new electronic keys is something which you could probably train a monkey with a closed headwound to do so you’ve got a decent chance of training a sleepy RA to do it. I’m all ready to go, I just need to know what room to code the key for.

Unfortunately, this particular student is not only stupid enough to lock himself out at 2:30 AM, he’s also got an attention span shorter than a goldfish. He’s apparently wandered off somewhere. I start running all over the building to find him. Eventually I locate him next to his door chatting with two young women. Good thing he fucking bothered to tell me which room he was in before running off to sit patiently by his door for god knows what. I corale him back to the office.

Here’s my first tip to freshmen: “If you awaken someone at 2:30 AM in the fucking morning to help you with your problem, have the courtesy to stick around for 5 minutes to help that person resolve that problem for you.”

Anyway, we get his key coded, I walk back to his room, I counsel him on how he can throw his deadbolt to keep the door from locking automaticaly on him if he goes to the bathroom, I implore him to be careful with his keys, and I bid him good night. Another freshman bundled up safe and warm in their dorm room with their teddy bear in one arm and a thumb in their mouth, all in a fashion that even our most neurotic, overbearing, and constantly intervening parents would be happy to see.

6:45 AM. Pound pound pound. Said freshman has locked himself out of his room. Again. For the second time in a five hour window. He shouldn have even been awake again in that period, let alone capable of locking himself out of his room again. Jesus H. Motherfucking Christ. In my own little ideal world this is how such a situation would play out:

“Admissions office? It’s agent B017. We’ve got a live one. ‘Too fuckin’ stupid to be in college.’ Security code Omega-6.”

“Understood. We’ll have someone right over.”

Five minutes later, the campus police arrive and take said student to a plastic padded room where he cannot hurt himself or annoy other people.

The next morning an advisor calls the student’s parents. “Mr. and Ms. Dumbass? We’re going to be refunding your tuition check. Unfortanately your son, Little Dumbass, is just too stupid for college. You’ll need to come pick him up right away.”

What do you guys think, shouldn’t RA’s have the power? We’ll raise the test scores for everyone else!

Okay, and another thing. Why in the hell are the Google ads, “Hot Chicks,” “Black Chicks,” “Cambodian Chicks,” and “Hot Dating- Join now Free.”

What refund? It would make more sense to penalize the parents for raising such a fucktard by keeping their money and selling the kid for lab experiments.

Uh- because you used the words “young women” and “college” in your OP?

Yep, that kid’s a good bet for not making it past the end of the year.

I second this motion. We have to do human testing on SOMEBODY, might as well be on someone who’s useless for streetsweeping or other similarly intellectual tasks.

As a former RA, I agree wholeheartedly. Let me add a couple of categories of people who should be banned or perhaps executed on the spot (execution being my preferred solution for these two dunces, because both of them ended up getting me into trouble with my boss):

  1. The only child, who has never had to share anything in his life with anybody, who is currently throwing a temper tantrum worthy of a two-year-old because his roommate put one fucking can of Coke into his refrigerator without asking, then comes crying to me about it. Then, when I laugh in his face and tell him to grow the fuck up, goes crying to my boss, all over one fucking can of coke in his fucking fridge.

  2. The fucktards who refuse to turn their stereo down, ever, often leaving it on when they leave for class, and pretend not to hear me knocking on their door. Then, when I shut off the power to their room, go crying to my boss. (Incidentally, my boss liked the idea of shutting off the power, but I got in trouble because I left it off for about 5 hours, and told them that the next time their stereo was too loud their power was going to be off for 24 hours, which got the boss an angry phone call from fucktard’s parents.)

Yeah, I thought I was a pretty good RA. My boss disagreed, but what can you do?

yea, he’s a nimrod.
but- why’d you have to run ‘all over’ to find him to get his room number if you found him 'cause he gave you his room number?

If he wasn’t going to wait with you, isn’t by his door the next best place? Why, instead of running all over the building, wouldn’t you immediately go to his room?

I can only hope there’s space in the plastic room for the both of you.

I think the student hadn’t actually told the OP what room he was in, and the “good thing he fucking bothered” bit was sarcasm.

No, to clarify on this point, he did not give me his room number and I literally searched the entire building to find him. I was being ironic. My apoligies if that wasn’t clear.

Do you have Resident Directors, or report to someone in student life? This may be a student who’s going to show up with alcohol poisoning during midterms, and it would be good to have a plan in place that involves clear consequences for less-dire infractions up to that point.

And yes, I have no objection to a revocation of his admission.

Is there a policy to make these idiots pay for the keys? Or a fine for getting locked out? If not, it might be something to consider.

If he is above the ground floor, paint his window frame open. Sooner or later he will fall out and and snap his neck, and you will have a fresh and quite profitable supply of tissue transplant material.

If he is on the ground floor, move him up.

That was the policy in our dorm 'way back when I was a semi-clueless college freshman[sup]1[/sup]. You didn’t have to pay for your first offense. Any subsequent losses were billed directly to you, and the price rose accordingly.

I don’t remember when they installed the locks where you first punch a code. I always presumed it was because there were too many complaints about paying for lost keys.

[sup]1[/sup][sub] I say “semi-clueless” because although I was an only and it was my first time away from home, I had enough sense not to throw a tantrum if one of my roomies put a Coke in my fridge or used something of mine…the latter if she asked first, of course. And no, I never lost or misplaced my key :)[/sub]

But…but…His personal space is very important to him! That fridge is HIS, and there are so few things that he can call his own! For his roommate to OPEN that fridge and put something in it is a direct violation of his privacy! If his roommate can’t respect the fridge, who knows what else he might do!

I had a roommate who pitched a fit because my boyfriend leaned up against her bed. It was a very small room, she was away for the weekend, he and I were watching TV, and since the TV was opposite the bed, we sat on the floor and leaned against the bed. Two of his very dark, very curly hairs ended up stuck to the bedspread, which contaminated it, and I got the above speech, modified, of course. Even though I pointed out that when we’d had sex, it was on my bed. So the next time we watched TV, I put a towel behind his head.

My, what a timely pitting. This article in today’s Patriot News addresses the point directly.

From the above article:

Where’s that barfy smiley when we need it? :yurk:

thanks for the clarification. yes, he’s a nimrod.

Absolutely. However this – “I corale him back to the office.” – is just setting yourself up for a sexual harassment suit.

And in the event of alien invasion I shall welcome our new overlords and volunteer to round up veaple for their consumption.

If the guy locked himself out of his room twice in one night and wandered off randomly, it’s very possible he was extremely drunk or on some kind of drugs. He might be stupid (and if he got that drunk or stoned, he probably is), but it sounds like the behavior of someone who isn’t fully in control of his faculties, regardless of how limited they already may be.