Why would anyone want to play golf? Same idea: you try to get a projectile onto the target. Of course the scoring is different. With shooting sports you get a limited number of shots and score for proximity. With golf you must get a “bullseye”, but you score on shots taken.
Personally, I can’t stand golf. I think it is utterly pointless and boring. But I do like to shoot. Golfers may think shooting is utterly pointless and boring. Guns are as necessary to the sport of shooting as golf clubs are to golf.
I don’t know if you play golf, but I’m sure you engage in an activity or hobby that others would find pointless and “sad”. People get fun out of all sorts of things. Not everyone will like the same thing.
Some people feel that a firearm is useful for self defense. Some people will attack an intruder with a golf club or a cricket bat. There is a difference in societies. Banning guns will not make them vanish into a void. Banning them will only allow criminals to have them and make it easier to prey on non-criminals. And over 99% of firearms are not used to commit crimes.
Of course not. There is nothing “macho” about shooting. Many women enjoy the shooting sports. And many women (and men) are safer against predators. IMO, the only ones who see guns as “macho” are those who have their own confidence or self esteem issues.
The “Wild West” was not as violent as it is portrayed in the movies. Neither is modern America as violent as it is portrayed in the movies.
You also live in a much smaller country with a different culture. Other countries beside the U.S. have large numbers of firearms in the hands of citizens. Switzerland seems peaceful enough.
And yet there are times even in the U.K. when a gun is the only solution. But of course the populace of England does not need to be armed. It’s not as if anyone would try to invade England, or anything like that.
I consider myself Pro-Choice. You want a baby? Fine. Have one and be responsible. You want a gun? Okay, be responsible with it. If you choose not to have a baby, own a gun, buy a Porsche, or anything else, then that’s your choice. Please respect the choices of others. Choice is one of the great things about living in a free society.
And now… the OP!
Good advice from everyone: Try several calibres and brands at a shooting range. Choose the one you like best. Be sure to learn how to shoot safely and responsibly. Take a safety course. If you have children, educate them as well.
Speaking of children, there are a couple of schools of thought on kids and guns. Some say, “If you have children, do not have a gun!” Others say that it’s okay as long as the gun is locked up. Still other people train their kids how to shoot, on the premise that if it’s not a mystery the kids won’t be overly curious. The National Rifle Association has a video that promotes “Stop! Don’t touch it! Get an adult!” There is no single answer to the question of how to teach children about guns. Definitely get advice from professionals; but in the end, if you have children, they’re your children. You will have to decide how best to educate them.
My current list of handguns are: Colt 1991-A1 .45ACP, Beretta 92FS 9mm, Ruger Mk. II .22LR, Ruger Single Six .22LR/.22mag, Ruger Blackhawk 7.5" .45LC, Smith & Wesson Model 10 2", round stock .38 special (I got that one for my U.S. Navy flight gear collection – now if only I could afford the radio, the collection would be complete!), and a pair of Uberti .36 blackpowder Colt 1851 Navy revolvers. I used to have a Walther PPK and a 1941 Luger P.08. Of all of them, I like the Beretta the best. It fits my hand well, and my groups are good with it. I recently tried a Heckler & Koch (“Coke”, BTW) USP .40, and the groups I got were better than the Beretta; but I like the Beretta’s trigger better.
Which gun should you get? It’s a matter of choice. Try several and buy the one you want. A revolver is pretty much “idiot proof”, but I like automatics. Ya pays yer money and takes yer picks.
Choose one, get training, and be responsible and safe.