Can anyone tell me why, someone who rapes
there own child gets a slap on the hand
and not put in jail.
I think anyone who even talks about
having sex with a child should DIE!
To anyone out there who was abused sexily
as a child, REVENGE is the only way to stop
them, they did it one, they will do it again.
If not to you, Some other defenseless child.
Everybody pays!
STAY STRONG
Stay Golden, Ponyboy
“Sexily abused?” How does that work?
Some drink at the fountain of knowledge…others just gargle.
That would be sexually abused!
STAY STRONG
I with ya!
Doth not a baby-raper bleed?
Mojo, you insensetive thug, you are attacking others simply because they are different. What gives you the right to judge the value of a person’s life?
In this topsy-turvy world who’s to say what’s wrong and what’s not? You should learn to respect other’s lifestyle choices. How can you make a blanket statement condemning all those who rape babies? Is morality not a subjective thing?
When they came for the baby-rapers, I said naught, because I was not a baby-raper.
As a survivor of childhood sexual abuse, I must say this to you, most kids who go through this are so traumatized , ashamed, and/or afraid they can’t tell.
My father, yes my own father, told me when I was 10 that if I EVER told he would kill myself , my mother and my sisters. I believed him, he was a wife and child beater too.
Then there was my Moms father, he told me that if I told he and I both would go to jail.
I never told anyone what these men did to me, men that should have loved and protected me, instead did this horrible thing to me.
Until it came out that my grand-dad had tried to do something to one of my cousins, when I was told what she had said he did I told my family to believe her.
Then the whole ugly story came out. I had to tell the one person in this world that I believed loved me that her husband of over 50 years had had sex with me, her granddaughter. You have no idea how painful that was for her, or for me. If it hadn’t been for not wanting my cousin to be called a liar, I would have denied it all. Sometimes I still wish I had ! It wound up a big mess, my dad was already dead, he died when I was 17, I had family members calling me a liar, and they telling me they wished I was dead and in hell.
But you know, a few years ago I watched my grand-dad die in agony from cancer. I wouldn’t wish that on anyone. Revenge is not the answer, education is the answer.
Teach your kids that they can tell you anything, that you will believe them. And for the love of God and your kids, if one of them comes to you and say,“so and so has been touching me” BELIEVE the kid. Get them to tell you when where and how, then file charges. Don’t make the mistake a girl I know did her daughter said that the moms bf had “stuck his finger in her butt”
This child told me the sam3e damn thing. The mom didn’t believe her 7 year old daughter, she believed the guy.
People, child molesters come in all sizes , shapes, colors, professions. Don’t let your child live in that kind of hell please don’t.
Please forgive the misspelling ect. in this post, but this has me in tears, please, please. please, believe the the children.
If the police and cps will do nothing, make sure that no child you have cotrol of gets around the pervert again.
Most child molesters have more than one victim.
Ayesha - Lioness
There are two solutions to every problem : the wrong one, and mine
(Thomas A. Edison)
Damn you Konrad, how fucking dare you say thats its a lidfestyle choice? Do you have any idea of the hell I still live with?
Do you know anything about the body memories I have? what I call what happens sometimes when I am making love with my husband and the memories come back , I want to throw up, do you have a soul Konrad?
This is NOT SOMETHING TO JOKEABOUT, you know before I just disliked you, now I dispise you Konrad, you are an asshole. Thank God I can’t get my hands around your neck neck at this moment.
Ayesha - Lioness
There are two solutions to every problem : the wrong one, and mine
(Thomas A. Edison)
Thank you Konrad. For showing us just exactly where the line between a bad joke and an absolute disrespect for other people’s experience is drawn.
Coldfire
“You know how complex women are”
In this topsy-turvy world who’s to say what’s wrong and what’s not
Konrad… you are one of the most fucked up people i have ever seen… whats wrong and whats not??? how can anyone even think there is nothing wrong with raping a child… or raping anyone for that matter… even if you were joking… you are one sick person.
Go back to your fucking gutter you slime
A true friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out…there are Angels among us
How dare you make a goddamned joke about such a sensitive subject? You have absolutely no idea in hell what it feels like to grow up feeling shamed and worthless because your daddy or uncle or whoever wanted to show you “what a woman is supposed to do”. Rot in hell, you insensitive bastard.
Shadowfox
“We are what we pretend to be.”
Don’t feed the troll. I know, it hurts, just walk away…
Ayesha – your pain is very real and after meeting you I am proud of the way you carry yourself and the fact that you are as open to the world as you are. There is a strength in you that is beautiful to be near. Remember that hug I gave you when we said goodbye? I’m giving it to you again. HUG!
This is a subject that is not funny. It is so incredibly painful and dark that it sometimes cannot be overcome by the victim. Or worse, someone plays “blame the victim” and the child is made to feel responsible for what happened. Or outright disbelieved.
One of my step-father’s “friends” put his hand down the back of my pants when I was about 11. I screamed as loud and as long as I could. I ran into the house and told my step-father who belted me in the mouth. He told me to go back out there and apologize to his “friend”. My mother almost killed him. She was livid. She believed me. She kicked his “friend” out of the house and told my step-father that if he ever, EVER touched me again she WOULD kill him. I believed her.
My parents taught me about good touch/bad touch. I knew they would listen to me. Thank God they did. I hate to think of what could have happened that night if my mother would not have been home.
Child predators are the lowest of the low. Even in prison, where you would think there would be no honor among thieves, child predators are always kept away from the general population. Because they will kill them. I do not have children and I have rarely felt the power of anger suffuse me with the passion to kill; but if someone hurt my child I fear that I would kill.
Thanks Byz.,
To everyone else, please know that I share my story about this, hoping to let people know that ANYONE can be a child molester, If my story helps just one person it is worth any repercussions I get from it.
Well and bravely done, Ayesha, Byz. Kudos to both of you, for your actions then and your actions now.
Well, I have parents who didn’t listen.
When I was about 11, an older guy from our neighborhood pinned me to the floor (he was much bigger than me and very well trained in martial arts-style fighting) and did various things to me. The problem was that his parents and my parents were friends. From that point on I would try refuse to go to their house if their son was going to be there. I didn’t tell my parents why so they made me go.
After this shit with him happened twice more, I confided in my grandmother because I was terrified of this guy. Well, she told my parents (I don’t know if she gave them details or if she just mentioned that I felt uncomfortable) and they just made jokes about it. For example, one night my mom had some stuff she needed to get to his mom. She asked me if I could take it and I said that I didn’t want to because it was dark. She and my dad just laughed and said, “Well, you could get Brian to walk you home. Just make sure and pick up some rocks to throw at him!”
They thought it was cute and funny but I have never felt more frightened than I did when I realized that no one was going to protect me from this monster. Luckily, his family moved soon after that.
ALWAYS believe your children!
…what the French call, a certain “I-don’t-know-what”
Konrad
I cannot find the words in my vocabulary to express the revulsion and contemt I feel for you after reading your post in this topic!
If this a joke to you then you are playing to the wrong audience,you belong over at the N.A.M.B.L.A. site,they will like your shit there.
If this is your choice of life style then the nicest thing I can say is " You are one of the Sickist Mother Fuckers on the planet!!" .
If you have to deal with it’s after effects on the victem, you might not think it’s so funny then!
The LION
Someone very, very close to me was sexually abused by her brother, so believe me, I know.
“It’s my considered opinion you’re all a bunch of sissies!”–Paul’s Grandfather
I’m not sure all rapists should be executed, but I do think they should spend a lot more time behind bars than they do. For instance, Mike Tyson is out already. Has he learned his lesson? I don’t know, but I know that the woman he raped probably isn’t “free” of her memories.
As for pedophiles, I don’t know what we should do with them. How can we possibly rehabilitate a person that lusts after a child? It makes me sick to think about it. And with the availability of pornography of all sorts on the internet, it only adds fuel to their fire.
I do think castration is a viable option…
Konrad, you insensitive bucket of phlegm.
I agree with Lisa. Castration works. Let’s start with Konrad. If at all possible, I’d also like to see his vocal cords snipped, and his fingers chopped off.
I’ve been there too - in a time when you didn’t speak at ALL about these things. This was back in the 30’s, when people just assumed this is how things were meant to be.
I can safely say, though, that it DOES get easier to live with over time and with sufficient positive counterexample.
Castrating bastards like Konrad also helps vent out frustrations and do humanity a hell of a lot of good.
Hang in there, guys. We all know Konrad’s really brave on the board - but if you met him in person, he’s probably a runny-nosed, zitty young man with a hamster fetish who lives in his parents house’s basement and types these things while sitting naked at his computer. He likes fucking with people’s thoughts and strike where it hurts. Someday it will be done to him, and no one will be willing to help.
“Semper Ubi Sub Ubi.” =-)