In order, with the exception of Esprix.
Esprix
I’m sorry for taking a cheap shot at you in that thread. I have no excuses. I couldn’t begin to tell you what the hell I was thinking, because I don’t even know myself. In retrospect, there is not one thing in that shot that makes sense to me, or is something I would consider an insult in real life.
The bottom line is that I really do not make judgements of other people based on what they do with other consenting adults.
goboy
I too regret that I think homosexuality is a sin. It would be easier for me to think that I know best and I should be able to decide just what is right and wrong. But I also don’t think I can rearrange what I truly think is right and wrong just to fit my worldview.
Let me just say, that I think the world is a fucked up place, and I think you have to accept that you can not be perfect. You also have to be the one that makes your own decisions on how you will live your life. Choosing a life of misery never seems right to me. If someone is gay, then I have no beef with them, and I think they should admit it and live the life they need to in order to be honest with themselves.
Scylla
I appreciate it. I really do.
IzzyR
A couple of points.
I love the essay on http://www.darwinawards.com that talks about incompetent people overstating their abilities and never recognizing their weaknesses. I will always look to see if there is something about myself that needs to be changed or improved, but I will reserve the final decision to myself.
I also think labelling someone a racist is one of the worst ways to rip someone apart. I would consider homophobe to be a close equal to that. Anytime it has been insinuated that I was a racist, I always rushed to the conflict. If you let something like that pass, it can fester and grow without you even knowing. I know I pissed off some people. Rather than have a whispering campaign about my homophobic self taking place behind my back, I decided to confront it head on.
In addition, here on the SD, my views are always up for grabs. That’s why I’m here. They are my views, and I don’t want them if they are wrong, or I don’t know why I believe them.
TheVoiceofReason
I think I will try to refrain from interacting with Hastur in the future. However, I don’t want to get into a “who was right and who was wrong” kind of discussion. Even if I got baited into it, I made my comments, and right about now I think I went a little to far.
Nurlman
I answered some of your questions in my post to IzzR. As for the rest, I did not only say that the two comments were equal. I also said I was approximating and offering a parody. I was aware that my comments were going beyond where Hastur had gone. Even though I found Hastur’s remarks ignorant and insulting, I probably should have just called him a jackass instead of taking it where I did.
wring
Yes. I was Freedom, and then I lost my password (longstory) and re-registered a couple months later as Freedom2. Then a (unnamed but gracious) moderator helped me switch back to Freedom. Any searches under my name will give you all my posts under both names now.
I’ll be back to address the rest. There are a lot of responses, and I have to go now.