First, I love watching people. People are so fascinating. I could spend all day just watching people. However, I try not to do so in an obvious manner as other people do tend to be wary of people-watchers.
Second, everywhere I look, everywhere I am, at all times, as I look at people, I notice good-looking men. While driving, if possible, I look at other drivers, and rejoice when I see a cute guy. On TV, in the mall, at stores, while at work, while driving - everywhere, everywhen, I try to seek out the good-looking guys.
I am also a major sucker for cute guys. I just recently bought a Blockbuster Movie Pass because the guy had gorgeous eyes and was cute to boot.
Although my sister will occasionally point out an exceptionally cute guy, she doesn’t point them out nearly as often as I do. When with gay friends, I don’t feel ashamed to point out cute guys, but my friends don’t point them out as often as I do. (It also seems that I find more guys to be cute than my friends or my sister.)
So, am I obsessed with or otherwise unhealthily fixated on good-looking men, or am I just more vocal about my sightings? Do I need to seek help, or am I like many others?
I just think you’re more vocal about it, from what I’m reading here. I tend to be more vocal about such things myself. Especially if I’m with someone I’m out to, because then I can point out cute guys and cute girls.
I’m also the most cute-guy noticing person in my circle of friends. And my coworkers know that they can always count on me to be the first to spot a cute guy in the office and alert the rest. They’re never as excited about it as I am, though.
There are cute guys everywhere! At the convenience store, in the car next to you in traffic, walking down the street… I see them all.
I’ve always been a big fan of men. I’m very feminine and the differences are infinitely intrguing to me. I find myself staring at their physiques and hands, and I love to study their mannerisms and ways of interacting amongst other men. Men are fascinating to me. And then there’s that smell… mmmm… men.
I’ve always been like this- I was scopin’ them out in kindergarten.
Yay for men.
Probably just more vocal. I’m the same way, but with cute girls. I’ll notice and point out cute men when in a group that I know is okay with it but I’m constantly remarking about cute girls to the point where someone, I can’t remember who specifically, once basically told me to shut up about it already.
Gawd, you women are just objectifying us. Don’t you know we have feelings? Did you ever think that maybe we’d like to be admired for our inner beauty?
Ehhh, who am I kidding? Check it out while I strut my fine self. Just showing off what the good lord gave me. And if you want to see more you’ll have to throw some beads.
I’m in my mid-twenties. My sister is almost 19. My friends are around my age.
Men are fantabulous. Even older ones. Even bald/balding ones. Although I wish I could be more flirtatious: somehow I think men don’t like being hit on by other men. Ah well.
If you think an “older” guy is cute, by all means let him know! I’m 59, and the “WOW!” is as strong as it ever was (and nothing else is diminished either, thank you). I can get turned on by a guy of any age whatsoever.
I’d find it flattering if a man approached me. Other men i’ve talked to said the same thing. But yeah, there could be some really bad people you run into if you do that.
