Jason? Hmmm.
Was it Crystal Lake?
I’ve read this thread with interest, as I seem to be a magnet for random anger. To the point that I actually avoid situations where I need to interact with strangers. My social awareness is much like a Myna bird’s singing. I can mimic the words, but have no idea what’s behind them. And so occasionally find myself dealing with an angry person with no idea why. Unless it’s empty and I can sit on an isolated stool, I avoid bars like the plague.
A recent highway refueling stop is a perfect illustration (exact quotes follow).
Me: [quietly fueling truck]
Him: “Hey, nice boat you’re pulling there.”
Me: “Thank you Sir!”
Him: “Well you don’t have to be an ASSHOLE about it!”
Me: ???
I have, on several occasions I can recall, wanted to drink without interacting with others. I must give off a vibe because people usually respect my wishes. If someone ignores my body language and talks to me, “kindly allow me to drink in peace” works.
Now we see the violence inherent in the system!